In a relationship, what is the ultimate betrayal?
How about for friends?
Is it true you can never break the bond between mother and son? ('The Forgotten.')
2006-10-22 01:46:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you will know when you find true love. the ultimate betrayel is cheating in a relationship. I don't think a bond between a mother and any child can be broken.
2006-10-22 01:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by kelsey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I've ever found true love except w/ that of my 12 yo old son. I thought I had when I met his mother again (who was my puppy love (1st g/f) in elementary school) & I sadly dumped a good g/f of 5 1/2 yrs upon seeing her again after 15 yrs. Sadly the initial flame was mererly physical/sexual attraction & partying. I fell head over heels, moved in with her, helped raise her 2 sons, got married, had a son of our own only 2 b separated after 11 yrs. of marriage & 13 yrs. 2gether once her 2 kids were either over 18 or pretty much grown up. My heart was crushed & I no longer even seek the love, affection, approval, or companionship of a female. So...I don't know (even believe) that it exists outside of the love I have 4 my son. Of course the ultimate betrayal is cheating/lying. Cheating if it's a m/f "exclusive" relationship & lying if it is among family, friends, co-workers, etc. And yes....c above answer: there is NOTHING that can break the bond between father & son......
2006-10-22 09:52:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When its true love....... you just know, when it comes to falling in love with friends, you would do anything not to feel this way about that person, and dont understand why you do, but cant fight the feelings that just looking into their eyes gives you, you would and will do anything for them, you see all your emotions reflected in their eyes.....i have found the easiest way to tell if its true love is to let them go, just so that you know that they have had the best possible chance at being happy with somone else, if its meant to be, it may take an entire lifetime, but you will have your chance with that person.....but be honest with them from the start as to how you feel.
i dont think you can ever break a mother and son bond......
forget ultimate betrayal, the only real betrayal that matters is being untrue and lying to yourself......
2006-10-22 08:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no true love.
Everybody changes. You, your love, and that pervert down the street whom you absolutely despise. However, the rate/speed of change does affect how you view 'true love'
Amongst the many changes to you, are things like priorities, life experiences, and most importantly, your personality.
Why else is the world so varied and rich? there is a different love for every personality, and its changes.
The ultimate betrayal is unique to your expectations of your relationship to that person.
The bond between mother and child (not just son) can be consciously broken. I've yet to consider unconsciously.
2006-10-22 08:53:38 · answer #4 · answered by opticalapparatus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes true love does exist,
1 Cor 13 4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Ultimate betrayal is different for every person. Betraying secrets, affairs etc.
Bonds between ANY relationship can be broken.
FORGIVENESS is the way to start repairing relationships and to begin to heal inside yourself (even if there is never a reconciliation you can walk free and healed)
2006-10-22 08:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ive never met anyone who could truely said "ive found my true love"
ultimate betrayal? umm steal money amd sleep with best mate
friends.... steal gf.. thats a major piss off
yes u can break the bond between mother and son
2006-10-22 08:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
/The ultimate betrayal to me is, cheating, I couldn't deal with that. And I'm not quit sure what u mean for friends. But I'm gonna answere that question the same way as the first one. If she/he tried to take someone that I thought was mine or wanted he/she to BE mine. Yes my sister inlaw did. From me as well.She moved him as far away as possible. She is a bit of a (Beep).....anyway hope this didn't happen this way for you. Be Strong, Later...sunnydays
2006-10-22 09:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by sunnydays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there are many mothers and sons who don't get along, yours truly falls within that catagory. As for true love, I think the secret is in the first word "true." Nothing makes you lose respect and even love if you catch them in a series of lies. Real love requires honesty and the belief that your partner is going to accept you just as you are. It also requires that you accept your partner just as they are. It always amazes me that some people accept that their dog is going to have accidents on the rug, destroy numerous things by using them as chew toys, wake you up on some nights every once in awhile because they take it into their heads they have to bark like crazy, yet people still love their dog and accept him just as he is. But for some reason they can't do that for their partner. Falling in love is pure luck, staying in love takes work.
2006-10-22 08:58:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It exists but it just works before marriage if u think u love him so can marry him in every condition u r making a big mistake it needs more than love
2006-10-22 08:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by Mana Nouri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is b/c i loved my first love since iwas 7 years till now15years.
2006-10-22 08:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by beauty girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋