i dont get any lovin at home at all not a kiss or a hug nothing from hubby
he is abuser and user
he is older then i by 30 years
i am so down that i wanna commite suaside
i have nothing left to live for
bye
2006-10-22 01:40:06 · 9 answers · asked by cindy k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sweetie,
You can get out and live your life the way you want to. It is possible. I was in a similar situation. You do have plenty to live for. You just need to take that first scary step. You'll surprise yourself and find strength where you thought you had none. It's never too late. Do what you have to do and live your life. Then you'll find your happiness, trust me. Always remember you deserve better. Good luck.
2006-10-22 02:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by jzeppelinforever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl don't do anything stupid,nobody is worth killing yourself over.I am in a similar situation,i don't get a kiss or a hug either.I am not being abused or used,but i am not being given any kinda' loving feelings and that is somewhat torture when you really love the person.In the beginning things were wonderful,but kids are involved in my situation,and the kids don't like the fact that i am in the picture,so they come to live with us and have made sure alot of issues have come inbetween us.
Why do you stay with someone that abuses you?If i were being hit on there is no way i would stay!If he is 30 years older than you,then how old are you?You really need to get out and have a life,you are mentally depressed and life don't have to be that way!
Get help for yourself! Good luck!!!!!!
2006-10-22 11:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a man 30 years old. and ill tell u straigt that no man is worth killing ur self over. my gurl was in the same boat ur in when i took her from her abusive boyfriend 2 and a half years ago and we r still happy today. turn and walk away and get out of the abuse. its not worth ur life .... u can always find a better man that will treat u better. the lady that is married to my uncle now is paralized from the waist down and she always thought she would never find anyone but he found her and he would die for her. so just turn and walk away. there is plenty of fish in the sea
2006-10-22 09:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by isuzu327 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be a LOSER! You have got the best gift given by God - FIRST is that he made you a Human Being and SECOND is that he made you a woman! A determined woman can do anything she thinks she can! Giving life is not what GOD sent you here for! Talk to me on bh37bh37@yahoo.com OR bh37bh37@hotmail.com
Tom
xxx
2006-10-22 10:10:18 · answer #4 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is worth dying over. There are other ways out of that mess and I'd start by walking out that door or put him out...whatever comes first.
2006-10-22 08:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't hurt your self over a looser like him.. just move out seems like he wouldn't notice anyways
2006-10-22 08:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do that!!
NO ONE is worth that
LEAVE HIM,you have a right to be appy also
2006-10-22 08:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by allthrottlenobottle2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please get some professional help.
2006-10-22 09:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by music143007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-22 09:02:03 · answer #9 · answered by Rox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋