before me and my x split i lent him 150pounds so he didnt lose his home. now we have split he is refusing to give any money back. i know it doesnt sound alot but i hardly earn anything the money is really important. is there any way i can get it back or should i just forget it
2006-10-22 01:26:03 · 19 answers · asked by haha_islaughing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i'm sorry for your situation but i'm glad that you are over with the relationship for a start to give yourself a better life. i've experienced the same thing with you as well and my ex had owe me money way before i broke off with him and until today after 2 years are still sitting on his debts but i've moved on with life but that will only make him feel so shameful for the rest of his life having to have ladies hard earn money!
2006-10-22 07:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did a good deed and I think you should be proud of yourself for that. You've just reminded me of £60 I lent a girl once and I'm a tight sod LOL. At the end of the day, think of it in terms of, his conscience. I personally would repay back any money lent to me regardless of a split because it is the honourable thing to do. You have to trust people and unfortunately some people don't deserve that. Don't let this instance prevent you in the future helping someone else. Use sensible judgement though, I'd help 'close to me' people but not at the cost of my sanity and survival.
2006-10-22 01:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by The Mole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl this has happen to me but the best thing i could tell you is move on and forget the money he is not worth it. Trust me just never give any man your money again. If he was a man or man of his words he would have given it back to you.
2006-10-22 01:31:51 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest forgetting it.. or u can ask a tough "friend" to help u get the money back and then offer him 25% of the money for helping u .. i always do that :D everyone ends up happy
2006-10-22 01:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just let it go as you will never get it back u will properly be fighting for the money back right up til u die life's to short as it is just leave it just never lend any money to anyone again that a lesson well learned woman.
2006-10-22 01:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by baby dust for me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen,
NEVER NEVER NEVER lend anyone money.
People take it, but are terrible at giving it back......if they give it back at all.
I mean ANYONE. The people you trust the most are likely to let you down the most.
If anyone asks for money, tell them to go to the bank. If the bank won't let them money, and they are desperate for money, they should sell themselves.
2006-10-22 02:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by Tatiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel i ended up losing my bed,washing machine and a lot of things including about £3000 i had no proof it was mine so there was nothing i could do just learn from it and never do it again without a written agreement
2006-10-22 01:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by lolls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can always sue him but if you don't want to go through the stress let it go the money is gone and he may or may not pay you back he knows that is wrong what he is doing and remember God bless those who bless others and as for him we he will reap what he have sown.
2006-10-22 01:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by kittywiz28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about it, just move on i'm sure you have better things to spend your time on rather than worrying about money you have very little chance of recovering.
2006-10-22 01:32:11 · answer #9 · answered by missree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you living with him in his home at the time?
2006-10-22 01:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by IC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋