The subject says it all, when we hang out, we have the best time together. He's always tickling me, calling me dear, giving me tons of random hugs, putting his arm around my waist, etc. I talk to him every day, and every day he's always telling me he "loves me". Which I'm not sure what kind of "love" that is...
But today when we were talking, he was sad because the girl he had a crush on got back with her boyfriend, so basically he asked me what he should do. I told him to give up on her...and he said that's probobly the best thing to do.
The thing is, I think he knows I like him, which I don't mind if he knows, I just don't want everything to seem wierd when we're together. Everyone's always telling me that we'd make a cute couple.
So my question is what next? Was him asking me for advice a hint as to he doesn't like her that much anymore or what? And would it really be the best idea to ask him out?
2006-10-22 01:19:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He shouldn't have gave up on her, but he just have to remember, she has a boyfriend.
Now if he's trying to separate her from her boyfriend, yes, he should gave that up. Nothing will change the fact that she is her boyfriend's girlfriend.
Now for you and him. The best thing for a relationship is love, not romance. You guys already got what a couple want in a long term relationship.
I think that what he wants is not for you as his girlfriend, but he wants another girlfriend, since that he already got you as his 'unofficial' girlfriend.
He knows that you're his 'unofficial' girlfriend and you know that he's your 'unofficial' boyfriend.
He knows that he is your 'unofficial' boyfriend and you know that you're his 'unofficial' girlfriend.
You guys would make a cute couple because you guys already are.
As for what you guys should do next.
Nothing unusual, just kept things as usual.
If you want to do couply stuff, just ask your best friend.
If you want to get married, just ask your best friend. Remember that your husband is your best friend.
2006-10-22 02:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best kind of relationships are the ones that just 'happen' sometimes. I had a best girl friend, and i tried to make it more by the whole askin thing, and it turned out to be a fiasco, still friends afterward, but not as close ...well actually, it was a different kind of drama actually. So asking him out would NOT help, but making it more intimate through actions will might. Make it blatantly obvious by your actions and not by giving him a difficult choice. IF he's smart he'll see it, if he's dumb well it may take a while. But normally people realize the best things are RIGHT in their face....they just need to realize it. Hey another idea might be to not see him for a few days, not in a negative way, but the "hey where were you i missed you" kind of thing, some people don't know what they have until it's gone.
But I wouldn't try n ask him out, a lot of times that can ruin things....just let it grow and blossom on its own.
2006-10-22 01:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a dude and im in the exact same situation with my best friend. we were gonna date but we realised what would happen when we broke up weather it be a week or a year later and we dont wanna lose what we have with each other. We love each other dearly and would do anything 4 our friendship so weve decided 2 remain best friends...it all comes down to if u think he is worth it and what will b missing from u and ur life when u eventually break up-yes it may be a clean one with u being best friend afterwards but on the same token it may end up bad with u 2 never speaking again. personally, I know id always have a hole in my heart if my best friend wasnt there. i suggest u Talk about it with him and make a decision-nothing rash coz best friends are the best thing since sliced bread.
2006-10-22 01:33:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It certainly sounds to me that he has strong feelings for you but is just too shy to say so. Don't be afraid to tell him how you feel. When you are together, try to get him to feel more at ease around you. Conversation is a great starter. Tell him that you notice him looking at you and ask him directly if he'd like to get together and go out. If he says yes, then make a date - keep it a simple one where there is no pressure from you or him. Then take things slowly. Show him that you are interested in him. Just a smile or wave when you catch him watching you is a start. Hope this helps. Sounds like you are both very young. So keep life as simple as you can. He'll eventually come around and warm up to you if he is indeed interested. Just don't push yourself on him. Good luck!
2016-05-21 22:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? Life's too short. Take a chance. You can spend days thinking about the what-ifs and yes-buts but in the end if you have a crush, you have a crush.
Go for it, find some way to end up on a date or something and see where things go from there.
2006-10-22 01:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would if i were in this position, take this chance and run with it. he doesn't have a girlfriend, you do not have a boyfriend. You already have an established friendship. a great foundation to build a relationship on. so, i say go for it. Good luck and God bless
2006-10-22 01:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do nything just be nice, do not mess this up by asking him out. if you get real brazen you could say well i would go out with you if you asked me . but say it in a fun joking kinda way. otherwise leave it alone and see what happens. in 6 months you may have forgoten all aobut him. dont have sex with him dont be fast and easy if you want it to last.
2006-10-22 01:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by mdbuchanan2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hiya....with regards to ur first question.....NO....dont jump to conclusions that he does not like her lost crush ne more....cuz u may never know....although u may want to feel tht way cuz u like him too.....but tht may not always be true....n with regards to ur second question.....YES.....taking him out surely is a great idea.... go just as u wud normally go out with him....my suggestion....dont let him doubh tht u might tell him sumthing(hopefully) unexpected....let it b a nice surprise but.....plz plz plz do not expect him to like u tht way as well....cuz till now v do not know whether does he love/like u more than just a friend do v?? so take care n all the best...n hey.....u two will surely b a great pair....lots of luv.....byeeeeeee
2006-10-22 01:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by kirti u 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go ahead and ask him out. This is the only way to get beyond ur confusion. If you never express urself, wat if he really loves u? I think there's no other way and u shud give this a try!!!
2006-10-22 01:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,i fink he does appreciate u coz he make u feel dat through his wrds........tell him abt yr feelings..btw if u r feeling too shy,try to give hints dat u like him n so on...Try to ask him if he is searching for another gurl,or,try to ask to ask him wat does he finks abt u.......if den also, if he doesnt asks u out...tell him dat u like him..Gudluck........
2006-10-22 01:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by Glamorous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋