My dear people, there's another questiond for you... i went to a club last night in central London where i met the man of my dreams ... southamerican just like me living here in london, sexy cute and smart,only one little problem he works in local food store and he is 29,i am 24 and graduating in business, so thereare some social differences.. what do u think i should, should i keep going out with him and maybe motivate him to find a different type ofoccupation or just end it now???
2006-10-22 00:40:50 · 16 answers · asked by Antonella C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you care about him and want to have a relationship with him, his occupation and social difference shouldn't matter. Never try to make anyone do something they don't want to or may not be ready for. That is the one sure way to end a relationship. If, and when, he wants to find a better job, he will.
2006-10-22 00:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by mizzgov_08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont believe I am a dear person but I can shead some light maybe.... What your saying sounds like a good start but before you ask some one too change you must be willing too doo the same.. If this does work out for you it will be a team effort. The two of you will have too change a little at a time. age differance dont matter that much this time and age there aint much too complain my now ex of ten years left me with our four kids for someone one year less twice her age so go figure
2006-10-22 00:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How shallow can you be? You sound like he's not good enough because he doesn't have a glamorous job or a significant education. If he is the man of your dreams, as you say, why would you walk away?
You should be thankful that you have a man that you like and that he works.... but I'm starting to wonder what he sees in you....
Granted education yes..... but apparantly not much substance beyond that.
You might be 24, but you still have some growing up to do.
2006-10-22 00:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in buisness yeh? y not open a shop or restaraunt and hire him with you. good for money and smae social standards. or getting your foot into an organisation and try and get him a job with you somewhere. dumping him because of his job isn't i'd expect mayb 10 years or so ago, but now there should be less prejudice over social differences. besides havn't u seen cinderella. . . haha abd example but it's true isn't it, love can see through to all people and shouldn't matter what they do. besides if he's willing to, than he could get a better job, mayb go tafe or uni for a degree and a better job if you motivate him to i guess...but yeh dumping him is just mean, could be the best guy in the world for you and your throwing that away ebcause of 1 small detail. think about it
2006-10-22 00:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by flaming_ichigo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are funny! You met him last night, and you are thinking about "ending it now". Ending what, exactly? You have known this person for less than 24 hours, and you are already planning to change his career choices for him? Can you say "desperate, needy drama queen"?
Yes, end it already, give the poor sod a chance to find someone normal.
2006-10-22 00:43:42 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean i was raised to never settle for less, but if you love this man then you don't force him into a new job, but try to persuade him to a better occupation. If u feel as though he's not trying then maybe such a dedicated person as yourself should move on.
2006-10-22 00:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone who's smart and open-minded with first fee style in music and photo. does no longer damage in the journey that that they had a love for British metal bands and potato products both. BQ: No, i'm 14.
2016-12-05 02:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you only met him last night and today you are changing him. I don't think he is really the man of your dreams. Keep on looking, he is out there somewhere
2006-10-22 00:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, leave that man alone. Do yourself a favor and don't go trying to make him over. Did he say he was dissatisfied with how he makes his money. He is not the man of your dreams! If he was, you wouldn't need to immediately set about trying to fix him. Maybe he wants somebody to accept him for who he is and that somebody is not you.
2006-10-22 00:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by Worker Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think social level and the knowledge is not important in love.
2006-10-22 01:03:02 · answer #10 · answered by Ropi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋