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2006-10-21 23:51:21 · 13 answers · asked by Eagle Eyes 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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You love her as Christ loved the church(us his children). Jesus laid down His life for us. But I don't think any human being can do that but we sure can try.
Here's a verse for you on this subj.
Eph 5:25
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, 26 that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, 27 that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. 28 So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. 29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church

There's more you can read on it. Bible is filled w/ Love and many many things in how we should live. It is a guide to everything in ones life. The BEST guide.

2006-10-21 23:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

listen to her, help her around the house, love her and show it, do things for her, pick up after yourself (thats a big one), always take her into consideration, dont cheat, give her compliments and expect nothing in return bc it will happen anyway, tell her what you think looks sexy on her, tell her she is beautiful, out of the blue give her a big hug or show intimacy, call her during the day to let her know that you think of her all the time, say thank you (another big one), appreciate everything she does, give her her own space, go out together every once in a while on a date, take her somewhere you can have fun together, be spontaneous, take care of her, cook her dinner, buy her a massage, be her best friend, seperate your laundry right (pet peeve of mine), give your time to her when she needs it, never ever put anything or anyone ahead of her not even yourself unless its your child and for good reason. i think that will give you a good start. Good luck. I wish my husband was asking this question. Just by you asking this, it shows how much you care about her. You should share this question with her and let her read the resposes and pick out the things she likes that way you wont go wrong.

2006-10-22 07:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by BJTD 2 · 0 0

LISTEN TO HER WHEN SHE TALKS!!

And a bit of oral wouldn't go astray (Lol!) Number one: you have to listen to her, because what you think is a great favour, she may think is a great nuisance!

If you always keep her needs and wants as number one priority in your mind then you will never go wrong. Always think "what would she like me to do right now?"

Always communicate with her about everything. Share your problems, let her in to your thoughts. Communication is so important, it makes the other person feel that they matter. Of course there are things that you should keep to yourself, you have to assess if it is in your interest or her interest to share that information. Some things are better left unsaid. Particularly if it is just to alleviate your own guilt.

Then again, sometimes, if you don't communicate, the other person can assume the wrong thing, like if you have a problem at work, they can assume you are angry at them when you just didn't want to bother her with your problem.

It is the little things that matter, the everyday things that you do. That matters much more than diamonds and roses etc etc.

Good Luck, you have the right attitude and that's the most important thing.

2006-10-22 08:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by NurseKaia 2 · 0 0

Just because you want to try your best means you're already a good man :-)

Make sure she understands and realizes how much you love her. you don't have to buy her expensive stuff all the time, but bring her flowers and surprise her with a candle-light dinner, or a candle-light bath.

Take her out to dinner to her favorite restaurant. Take notes from what she says : like if you hear that she would like to buy something later, make sure you go ahead and buy it for her - gift wrap it & surprise her ...

It's not the materialistic things that matter - but small things that matter the most. Loved ones need to know that their partner thinks of them ...

Go for long walks together. Hold hands. Give each other hugs and kisses. Look her deep in the eye when you tell her how much you love her.

You'll have to work on each and every relationship. Good luck to you both.

Be happy. :-)

2006-10-22 07:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Communicate

2006-10-22 07:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0 0

By making a decision ......and sticking to it till the day you die.....
that no matter what happens.... or how tempted you are .....outside there ..... in the years to come ... you will remember this question you asked.
Should the cookie crumble remember this question ... and work out whatever happen with your wife through communicating....and communicating and communicating till the problem is solved and both of you are comfortable with the results.
Wishing the both of you a wonderful and blessed life.

2006-10-22 08:18:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Do stuff around the house for her just to help her. Make her a romantic dinner to surprise her. Buy her a present even when it isn't a holiday. In the end just be there for her anytime she needs you. That's things my husband does for me.

2006-10-22 07:06:52 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0 0

Tell her!
just simply tell her that she is your sweet wife and you really want to be the best husband for her!
Believe me, she will love it.she will love you!
she is a lucky woman.

2006-10-22 08:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by sss 1 · 0 0

do the dishes! she will love the break! any form of cleaning up especially if she isn't home and comes home to a picked up house, a nice scented candle lit, maybe supper cooked, ah, that is so nice when my husband does that after a long day at work, I know I sure appreciate it, it almost makes me cry...Not sure if its the effort or the fact I am so beat, or both...but it sure is nice....

2006-10-22 06:56:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

just be there, be faithful, be interested, let her know how much she is appreciated and help out occasionally. These are the main things a girl wants. The occasional dinner, chocolates or diamonds don't go astray either.

2006-10-22 07:01:07 · answer #10 · answered by jewel 2 · 0 0

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