2006-10-21 23:29:46 · 24 answers · asked by Kathryn E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you too busy? Do you forget to go out on dates with him? Does he forget to bring you chocolates? Flowers? Take you to romantic getaways for four hours now and then?
Does he make sure not to provide unromantic images of himself? Nothing kills romance faster than watching a man flirt with other women, notice them too much, or do something uncaring or mean. Guys have to remember their 'knight in shining armor' factor so that they can star in your fantasies.
It's easy to take eroticism for granted and starve it to death. Start thinking about all the things that attracted you to him in the first place, and spend your time finding cute things for either (or both) of you to wear to bed. Every part of a relationship needs a little nurturance to survive.
2006-10-21 23:35:07 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
This could be from so many different factors.Do you 2 have kids ? Long hours at your jobs?Most of the time its people fall into the routine that works and they stick with it because it works.Over time it just gets boring.Break up the monotony.Go away for a weekend.Do little things that will want you both to want each other more in the bedroom.That will help the desire,but every couple needs some spicing it up now and then whether its toys ,different positions,different locations,just have fun with it.There also might be medications or stress messing with your libido,there is stuff you can take to bring you back around.Good Luck!!
2006-10-21 23:56:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be a number of reasons. You have small children and so you're tired; you have to work and take care of home and husband; you've been dealing with too many problems or feeling overwhelmed by problems, some created by your husband. If none of the above, perhaps you need to consult a medical doctor or talk with a counselor or minister.
2006-10-21 23:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by Worker Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There can be multiple reasons. You or him or both being busy in something more important. One of you having problems with either of you. Some external factors like someone smelling bad not very attractive now then before. Some one else in the other person' life. Some other sexual interests like playing on internet than doing in real with you due to above reasons. There can be lot of things, Add me on bh37bh37@yahoo.com or hotmail.com to discuss more
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2006-10-22 03:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see a counselor or your doctor. Sex is very important in marriage especially to your hubby. Even though your not into it you still need to put out when hubby wants it. You may find that once you start having sex you will get into it and have fun.
2006-10-22 00:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend I am 40,for awhile I thought I was losing mine to,but I got it back,you might think it is crazy but you need to try a few things,first,stop wearing underwear,this will not only give you a new sense of freedom but the thought of it makes you feel more sensual not to mention as soon as your hubby finds it out the imagination goes crazy,right now your sexual ambitions are sleeping,wake them up and I am one that would never try anything,now I try almost everything,
2006-10-22 00:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by TAMMY M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like love and romance, sex needs to be worked at. You get tired of the same food every day don't you?, so change things around sometimes
2006-10-21 23:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has befell to me and my husband too. you may desire to attempt and SPICE issues up slightly. according to hazard attempt new issues. initiate with new positions, pass get a Kama sutra e book. Then video clips (we had a great time with educational video clips, i are conscious of it sounds extraordinary yet its worth it!) you are able to hold toys into the mattress room too... we did no longer like them too lots yet anybody is diverse. in case you at the instant are not mushy with those issues then that's advisable to attempt according to hazard function enjoying? Blindfolding one yet another is a gorgeous adventure. Use feathers and oils... its great relaxing. wish this grew to become into efficient :o)
2016-11-24 22:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you r fat.If not sorry,if so lose alot it makes you look and feel better,for real.If you r not fat,maybe u need to slow down and enjoy life,i am almost 41,you wood think i was 31.I love to stay in shape i enjoy sex alot more.
2006-10-21 23:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 29 and i have been with my gf for about 14 years i recon a little imagination goes a long way cant hurt to try
2006-10-21 23:33:41 · answer #10 · answered by mycerrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋