hello people m fedup of my sis in law she got married jst in may n now she is 2 months pregnant n her mum is behavin as though she's is first 1 2 give birth n when i was pregnant it was like nothin is goin 2 happen, n now my mum in law is askin her 2 come n stay with us at home atleast 4 atleast of 2 years, i was waitin when she will get married n now m thinkin y she got married? she is almost 7 years elder 2 me n she dominates at times n both mum n daughter create mess every time plzzzzzzzzzz hlp me
2006-10-21 23:27:17 · 5 answers · asked by arshi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sorry, but I too have a hard time understanding what you wrote...it doesn't seem fair, but there is a little difference when it is your daughter, having a child. not the daughter in law...like the other person said, its cause' your child is having a child...my son's wife's mother is doting to her daughter and the grandchild, and as much as I love her, I am ok with her mother all over the daughter/grandaughter, no jealousy....that is her child who had a child....my daughter had a daughter, and although I love both my grandchildren, I can see my daughter little, in her daughter...and that is a special mommy thing...to see her in her...If your mother in law and sister in law are just enjoying this time, your feeling left out...understandable, but just the way it is....if they are not such nice people towards you, it is time to put a little distance in there so you don't have it shoved in your face.....don't let all that family brooha absorb you, you'll be miserable, and they won't care....if you are living with mom in law...GET YOUR OWN PLACE ASAP!!!!!
2006-10-21 23:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its your home..then put your foot down and let them know how you feel, and that the living arrangement is unacceptable. If it is your mum's house... than it is time to move out! If it is your home and you don't make clear to ANYONE how you feel about things that include you and your household, than mum (or anyone else) will surely take over. If you just sit back and let this all happen you will be miserable and uncomfortable in your own home...
IF IT'S YOUR HOUSE; THAN TAKE CHARGE!
IF IT'S YOUR MUM'S HOUSE; THAN TAKE A SUITCASE!
2006-10-21 23:38:37 · answer #2 · answered by wherenai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh! your mother in law didnt care when you were pregnant cos your not her daughter. now her daughter is pregnant shes going all out because her baby is having a baby of her own. ignore em, y are you living with your mother in law? get out and find your own place and then you wont have to deal with it.
2006-10-21 23:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pls as your friend i can say only dont worry about that if u wait for last you will be the winer you allso can get the love of your mome so pls dont worry about that and be happy all ways
2006-10-21 23:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by zaheen a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would help if you asked your question in English. What in the heck are you talking about? Peace and God bless.
2006-10-21 23:32:02 · answer #5 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋