i was in standard 10 at that time i met her so there was our begining that day i know that she was in cycle and she did accident with me and told sorry to me so that was the first day and the second day while i was leaving from school she was in rikshaw and that was the second time that i met her in this i got the introduction with her so after some days we used to go together and this way we became good friends and after i left the school she also left and we both met each other and had a discussion with her so we joined the class again till 12th we were together and then we aparted ok now she is in studing for air hostess and i am working in call center for all we had a discussion so many times and her answer was only that we can b just good friend not more than that all is this i dont know when will she come in my life now i am all alone and dont know what to do i am always thinking of her and i can t forget her b cause she is what i live for pls give me some guidlines what to do
2006-10-21 23:21:57 · 9 answers · asked by ricky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She was clear about what she wanted. So you have to accept this and move on. Because when you love a person, nothing matters whether you know how to talk or not. I am sure, you will find someone out there (especially for you) who will respond to the love that you would like to offer.
2006-10-21 23:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi buddy !
Be prepared to listen to what I am saying with a very open and positive approach. I will be saying what I feel should be done and whatever seems to be the hidden truth from your question.
It's not that your girl doesn't like you because you are poor. The real reason seems to be your inarticulateness (not good at talking). Girls like to accompany a guy who is good at talking and is versatile in his topics. So try not to get into much details when talking. Be humorous and jolly. Be adventurous and more often give her space in her life. Like it's said... "To let your loved ones stay near.... don't stay always near !"
Once in a while meet her and be very cool, jolly and short in your talks. Don't start those conversations and discussions that you did in past. Show her that you simply don't have the same feelings for her as you did earlier by your behavior.
But do keep in touch with her and wish her on special occasions (i.e. only if she does the same to you)
As time passes by, try to Analise from her behavior the way she acts with you. If you feel that she has started to like your company..... you may be slowly starting to gain a place in her heart with a changed new personality !
All the best !!
2006-10-22 00:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anand M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good friends are hard to come by,so you should take your relationship with this girl and cherish it,if you remain good friends,and be thankful for at least that. If she said she only wants to be friends,then chances are,that is all that you will ever be,but that is not a bad thing as everyone needs friends too. You cannot change her feelings or her,so you will have to accept that you will never have a deeper relationship then friends. Good friends will accept you no matter whether you are rich or that you speak eloquently or not....so take the fact that she wants to be friends and hold on to that. There is someone out there for you,who will accept you for you,no matter what,so hang in there!!
2006-10-22 00:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by roses are red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor, doesn't matter. if she is the only one u luv to live with n if ur luv is true then nothing in this earth can do anything. if still there is the bond of frendship within u guys then be the closest frend of her. try to be as frendly as possible n express urself, the way u r. u may be poor but u r the richest from heart, i'm sure. she'll soon understand that if she dont get u she will lose a jem, someone extremely special.
2006-10-21 23:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by DrAmA QuEeN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok seriously dude, i've been there and when a girl says you can only be friends, your pretty much screwed. however changing that into close friends and mayb best friends isn't that hard, or mayb it's just me, but take alot of interest in her, without becoming a pest. also be sweet and subtle in trying to get her, being nice without making it to obvious.
becoming what she wants is the hardest way to get a girl, but usually works, so if it's in your grasp than go and try to become her dream dude.however mostly, when a girl says they want to be just friends, yeh relations with her are pretty much dead. don't give up though.
2006-10-21 23:30:59 · answer #5 · answered by flaming_ichigo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at your back ,your front and your sides... There some other girls yet.. .. open your eyes. Litltle by little you will learn to forget your love for her... Its hard to do that, but you can do it.. Trust me , you can move on w/ out her.
2006-10-22 00:04:44 · answer #6 · answered by jane u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if u are lucky to get her .I believes that the relationship will not last .Than at that stage, it will be more mental torturing than now.Find someone loves u .
2006-10-22 00:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by chriszzzzzzzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vote democrat then she can be poor too and you'll both be in the same boat LOL
2006-10-21 23:24:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send it to a publisher
2006-10-21 23:26:59 · answer #9 · answered by Pauline 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋