to her familys home leaving the husband devastated and lonely and tensed what about the women doesnt she have caring feelings and a heart which feels cause i have experiented it when my wife left me i felt kind of lost but sincerly i dont know how she felt but i managed to get her back dont they have hurting feelings or is it normal for them
2006-10-21 22:21:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, it's not always the wife who leaves the house. When my husband and I have an argument, sometimes I leave for a few minutes and other times my husband leaves. It's just cause we want some space to cool off so that we can resolve the issues in a calm manner. It doesn't mean we don't care. It's just that we don't want to escalate an argument that can otherwise be resolved rationally.
2006-10-21 22:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman are too emotional creatures, they can't live without emotions - even bad or sad! That is why when family life is too quiet, that's the time when you should be waiting for a fight. It's like sea before storm!
Women loves when somebody is "running after her" trying to get her back, because this is when she really feels that you need her and can't live without her and she needs this feeling like a drug. Other choice not to live fighting all your married life is - let her feel sometimes that you are afraid of loosing her (even if you're not), I don't mean that you should hire PI to follow her everywhere but just give her some questions so that she understands that you are a little bit jealous. Make your and her life more colorful, make some presents, some surprise dinners - but not too many - surprise makes you happy when it doesn't happen every day, then it becomes routine. And the last advice (and the most important) is - treat her the way you treated her when you were just going out, when you were trying to make her love you! If you can do all of this, believe me you will get your promised "eternal happiness" with your family.
2006-10-22 06:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah we hurt. And we have feelings. Most go home because that's the one place we know that there is someone that loves us. Men don't show their wives enough how much we mean to them and we feel neglected by our husband . Home is our safe haven. Weather it's our parents home our the one we share with our spouse.
2006-10-22 05:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When women go through emotional problems they need to surround themselves with a support group. A group of people they feel comfortable with. People they feel will take their side and be supportive. People that will listen to what they have to say. They all do it.
2006-10-22 07:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by d b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am always the one who exits the house,,
It is my chance to go on alone to some friends to drink or to go to bars, and night club together with friends,, or alone..
Sometimes it is better to be alone,, find some girls to carress..
Then go home the following day and nothing more is said..
That's it,, just that... If she continues the machine gun,, then off again I go... drink some more..
But it is seldome though.
2006-10-22 07:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not always the wife. my dad just up and leaves all the time.
2006-10-22 05:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by Allie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's funny. i always see men stroming out of the house. going to a bar or their buddy's house and getting drunk. wow we must live in two different worlds.
2006-10-22 05:26:02 · answer #7 · answered by Lady_Lavinia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we do have a hurting feelings they leave their husbands because they cannot be happy with them.She left you because she have to bear you through out her life.
2006-10-22 05:28:12 · answer #8 · answered by laasya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not all ways the wife that leaves .
2006-10-22 05:45:26 · answer #9 · answered by tia c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not always
2006-10-22 06:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by txcatwoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋