my husband won't talk to me, its been 2 days now, what do I do?

Question

and this is all because I had an attitude, and he said he won't forgive me, I said sorry, and he just said, don't talk to me, its been 2 days now, and hes acting like an #$@#@#%#5 , what do I do?

he sleeps with his back turned to me, and hes really cold and mean

Answer 1

treat him the same way! don't back down he just wants you to get on your knees and beg! don't give him the satisfaction.

Answer 2

I wouldn't let his childess acting make me feel bad, ESPECIALLY if I said I was sorry. Sounds like his playing you and it's working. If you really want to know what I think I would start wondering if his been seeing someone else. People don't just act that way for two days. His up to something and he has a guilty conscious and now you've gave him a way out of it. Now he can put it all on you and walk off guilt free. I wouldn't let him do it. You did your part now go on like " Well, ok if you want to act that way then go ahead cause I not going to feel bad anymore." I'd turn my back first and get up every day with a smile on my face. Let him wonder what's up with you. If you had an attitude then maybe you had a reason to. Maybe not, but he shouldn't act like that over it. I'm telling you there's more to his acting then you know.

Answer 3

He is being immature and selfish! He won't forgive an attitude?! Yikes, what is this guy's problem? He's got some built-up hostility and hatred for some reason. Tell him he can sleep on the couch if he's going to be like that, and tell him to grow the **** up already!

This is very manipulative and pathetic behavior. He needs to get help for whatever is bothering him. P.S. It's not your fault.
P.P.S. Do NOT apologize again, do not write him a letter, and do NOT have sex with him. Tell him to get over it and come back when he's not pouting anymore.

Answer 4

Take all the good advice here and dump the rest. But its true, you can't let this set a pattern. Don't do it back to him unless you wanna live that way for the future. Try to talk, try to seduce but if he seriusly won't respond, there are much bigger troubles in this relationship than your attitude. The sooner you face them, either together, or separately, the less of your life is wasted lying around staring at someones back.

Answer 5

Obviously the marriage is a mistake, you do not stimulate him, you are both being dishonest to each other and yourselves. You said sorry ? You don't even think you have anything to be sorry for, you think he is an #$@#@#%#5. Get honest, get real, get out of there, set him free to maybe find someone he can be happy with and by the same token stop wasting any more of your short life with him. Go to night school get a little smarter and hopefully become someone of worth who will be in a position to choose someone who is worthy. You don't even know where your "attitude" comes from, do you ? It comes from being frustrated and bored and knowing you should have done better then you have.

Answer 6

Well, well, well.... so you guys are not talking to each other for two straight days... and he's mad at you because of your attitude...? Didn't he married you with these attitude? If he does then he should love you who ever you are, with or without an attitude. Everybody has flows you know, nobody's perfect. In fact, like all the rest of these people are saying, you're not having sex for quite a while now.... hmmm... sounds interesting. I wonder who will give in first....hahahah. Don't give in to him. Let him come to you. Have some pride. It's you that he married not your attitude. It's your whole package. Don't you know that deep inside us guys love to court our mates even if it's not our fault? Give him a challenge, dress up like you were when you were still dating him. And don't stare at him, let him stare at you (ofcourse you'll know it but ignore it anyways). Live your ordinary routine like taking care of him but always keep your distance. We guys love to go after girls who seemed not so interested with us. Keep him thinking instead. You'll see. And once he give in.... give him a lap dance... he'll surely will love it....hahaha... c",)

Answer 7

pack your stuff and get a motel stay at a friends. married means you can have an additude adn teh other person says pfffttt ok whatever and goes on w/ life. tell him to get over it..stay away for about a wek he will get teh point and if he doesnt and stays mad then get an apartment or find a stable place to live and go there because guess what this is emotional abuse he is using silence as a way to get u to be and act the way he wants

Answer 8

your husband is trying to punish you for what you did wrong as he sees it. he may feel that you too are being unreasonable with your behavior and is frustrated and so acts like a child as we all do on occasion!

relationships are hard at the best of times and often the ways in which couples vent their disagreements are destructive. if you both love each other you will communicate, and as a partnership make efforts to fulfill each others desires. As you go through life you may grow apart in opinion and be unable to compromise. if you feel that even when you are both trying to understand each other that there is no progress, then your options are to accept how it is or to move on.

Answer 9

Your man is beening very shallow. I would guess that there is something in the past or in the present relationship that is bothering him. If it is that he wants to be the leader in the relationship then he needs to talk to you and see just what the problem is. Solve. If he does not He will do like I did, Walk away. This is the only answer I can give. this is my experience.

Answer 10

Ask him if he'd like to go to marriage counseling with you. Tell him you could use his support and he can just talk with the counselor if he doesn't want to talk with you. That you know NOBODY is perfect including yourself. IF he goes -- the counselor will get him to open up and find out where HE is wrong.
He probably won't accept it. Maybe not from a minister either. He maybe used
to drink or use drugs. Whatever it is, he needs to clear it up or he'll ruin it all, even if you've been right or WRONG.. .The "right" will go with the HONEST ONE WHO ADMITS BEING WRONGand is willing to CHANGE THEMSELVES not their spouse!

Answer 11

if u know that itis all bcoz ur attitude then first say sorry and then try to do nice things for him since sometimes it takes more then simple plain sorry to make things better . u must have done something very awful which u dont realize but he might be deeply hurt by ur attitude.