I just need opinion from you... Please I need your PERSONAL opininon. Thanks...
2006-10-21 21:06:04 · 19 answers · asked by radioactive_nitroglycerine 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
iam not one for sex before marrage. if you wait for the person you love it will be something new and exciting and something you will never forget. All good things come to those who wait
2006-10-21 21:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its perfectly fine as long as you are sure and ready. I had sex for the first time for all the wrong reasons and completely regretted it, I was in a state of denial that I needed something more so I regretted it. But as long as you're sure and really ready go live life I say!
Because I reckon once you're married you're done and he's the only thing you focus on. so if you need to get certain things out of your system as I do, like the bad boy etc, then this is a good time.
2006-10-21 21:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by anabanana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a common thing. I only had sex with guys I was with for a long time, (two three years, ect.) later on I was married but it didnt work out. I dont think I ever want to marry again (just a personal choice Im happy being single) but I am definitely going to have sex. So in my part, I think its about someone you are attracted to physically and emotionally and that you want to be intimate with. Its about trust and lust all at the same time. I dont think nothing is wrong with it, and although it would be nice to wait till marriage and be with that one for the rest of your life, the way the world is today, that is unlikely.
2006-10-21 21:19:22 · answer #3 · answered by Esme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you can have sex every day and it wont change a thing because when you finally meet that person that you fall in love with it's not just "having sex" anymore it's "making love" and i honestly don't know what all the fuss is about. You commit to someone with your heart - not alot of money and a piece of paper to say your married. If you really love someone you don't need a piece of paper to prove it.
2006-10-21 21:14:39 · answer #4 · answered by jyejas35 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're a Catholic, you don't have to compromise your faith. If you're corrupted then go on and just be ready for the consequence.
Sex may be enticing but, to tell you the truth, you can still get fed up with it too or worse, if youre inexperienced, you'll just bore your partner.
It's more of self respect and respect to your girlfriend. If you love her, don't get her *** into trouble.
You can have all the sex time you want after the knot gets tied.
how's that?
2006-10-21 21:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by Dave S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's your call. whatever u decide u need to think really well and be ready to accept the outcome of ur actions. once u do it it's there, no turning back. it's ur body n ur life so dcide what u think u really want, not bcause of other people's comments or influences so u wont have any regrets after.
2006-10-21 21:21:14 · answer #6 · answered by sabbie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't really agree to having a premarital sex before a real marriage. it's not healthy and if you really do love them person, why can't you wait till your marriage then? like a saying goes: "always save the best for the last" !!!
2006-10-21 21:13:37 · answer #7 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to think against it. I have softened my view because I think many people get trapped in an unsatisfying sexual pat of their marriage...and it is not an easy problem to reolve.
2006-10-21 21:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the old saying goes----Would you buy a pair of shoes without trying them on?
2006-10-21 21:34:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your view? I personally feel like what people want to do w/ their lives is none of my buissness...as long as it doesn't effect me in any way. It's your life not mine!!!
2006-10-21 21:09:27 · answer #10 · answered by foxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋