2006-10-21 20:48:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First, you need to have real conversations with they guy and go out a few times before you fall in love with him. Secondly, I don't recommend it until you discuss it with your brother first. It might be all too strange.
2006-10-21 20:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't already, you should first make sure it's ok with your brother that you're in love with his best friend. If it's not ok with him, you should talk to him about it. Think about how your relationship with your brother would turn out if you went behind his back for his own best friend. If on the other hand your brother is cool with it, ask him what he thinks you should do since he probably knows his best friend better than anyone else.
2006-10-21 20:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by perfectly_chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i would talk to your brother first before you do anything else because he is your brother and you dont want him flipping out on either of you...
Also your brother will know alot about him and maybe if he likes you too..
If you two do get together take it slow and dont get in between the your brother and his friend, Make sure you tell your brother strait out that this will not interfere..
Good luck
2006-10-21 20:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your brother's best friend know directly than to post Q and ask us! this is a waste of time and making yourself pondering so much! let out what and how you feel, don't bottled up your thinkings. you'll never know what answer you may get after letting him know. things may change for worse or maybe better! anyway get ready for the worst and don't worry so much! i'm sure everything will be alright. take care!
2006-10-21 20:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you don't love him...effectuated maybe, but not love. I would not suggest you go around telling boys you love them. Many of them will use that as an excuse to take advantage of you.
Just treat him special when he's around. He'll get the message.
Don't over do it.
2006-10-21 20:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any reason to think that he might love you back? Do you think your brother won't mind you dating his best friend? If the answer to both of these is yes, then just tell him. Otherwise, rethink it.
2006-10-21 20:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by laislinns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him, that you think he is a great guy and you like him..if he is smart he'll understand. All the best
2006-10-21 20:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by vijay kumar98724 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your love is sincere, Be patient. You'll figure out a way in due time.
2006-10-21 20:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, (insert brother's best friend's name), I love you!
2006-10-21 20:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell him.Be friends & be friendly but dont rush anything.Look in his eyes when you are talking & smile.If he feels the same,,he will let you know.
2006-10-21 20:50:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋