im going out with a great guy but i still have feelings for my X and i don't know what to do there both nice will some body please help
2006-10-21 20:20:56 · 8 answers · asked by vicky v 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
give it time. go out with this new guy with an open mind. If it was meant to workout then it will. same applies to your bf. If it was meant to be with him then it will be. I realize that was very general but it was the best I got
2006-10-21 20:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there had to be some reason that you and your ex broke up so you need to look at that first, If there was alot of problems or what ever the problem was maybe you still love him like many of us do but you dont want to get back into another relationship with him if its all going to happen all over again,
Now your with this great guy and if he is treating you good and your happy, i would give it a chance, You never know... alot of people get confused with love, let it just happen,
another thing is you may have feelings for your ex but he may not feel that way about you. So really think this all out..Good luck and dont break this guys heart if he really cares about you..
2006-10-22 03:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thts obvious .if u hv stayed with ur x for too long u are bound to hv the feelings as he was an imp. part of ur life.But if u people hv decided to part ur ways it must be a conscious decision. gv ur presnt partener enough time and care and plz dont compare him with ur x as its not fair on ur part thn. Have patience and gv urself time . may b ths turns out to b a better decision of ur life.
2006-10-22 03:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by omika s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a long time out from both!! (6 months at least)
2006-10-22 03:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the feeling for your ex hidden in your heart and enjoy with this great guy.
2006-10-22 03:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow youre heart..
if your X has alredy a girlfriend stop em and move on....
but if he is still available all i can say is "go girl"...
but please dont use the guy you are dating to make your x jelous..
2006-10-22 03:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by Eunice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest so no one gets hurt, this includes you.
2006-10-22 03:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by TJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD WRITE DOWN YOUR LIKES AND DISLIKES FOR EACH GUY AND SEE UR REALUTS AFTER ! THAT WUT I ALWAYS DO!! good luck !! i wish you all the best!!!
2006-10-22 03:23:17 · answer #8 · answered by funnyfun92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋