My wife has been cheating on me and I have just found out I have aids. Should I just kill myself now or wait for the end to come painfully ? She has aids too and so does 2 of her lovers.
2006-10-21 20:16:05 · 11 answers · asked by Jo r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Geez! you are a walking time bomb. I'd stick it out for about a few years and ask yourself if it is time to take the bridge. In the mean time enjoy yourself ! If your wife has any sisters ask them for a night out and welcome them to the world of aids.
2006-10-21 20:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by John H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down! The end is not for us to decide. Whether it is painful or joyous is. If you have any "self-worth", you will realize that killing yourself is the most selfish behaviour a person can act-out. It is a short term solution to a long term problem. No matter how far down the scale you have fallen, that is not the totality of who you are. You count because your a rare and special gift in this vast universe. Your a person. Think of what that means. There is only one you. Gather your senses and rejoice for being. This is not a dress rehearsal. It show time and the light shines within you. Let the light out so others can see you. Like you, we all exist with painful experiences. It's what we do with the pain that determines whether we have character or cowardice. Become open to the compassion of others and you will find strength. Aids is a treatable disease. As is loneliness & fear. It's okay to be wounded, it's sad to let the would become infected and turn into self-pity and then self-loathing. I know because I once was there.
There is no hand out, but there are many with a hand up.
2006-10-21 20:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by jaron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that has happened to you, and your wife is a whore.
It's no reason to kill yourself because you have life. Everyone is going to die your path has just been chosen for you. NOw the thing is to except it and move on with your life with apparent caution. Your wife was the carrier of that virus and for that she is going to hell, don't beat her there.
I'm sorry
much love to you
2006-10-21 20:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by datcreekgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't kill yourself. Don't let the whole situation defeat you. Just leave your wife and make the best of your remaining days.
2006-10-21 20:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by beetee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah woah woah. You know this, and YOUR STILL WITH HER?
what is wrong with letting people walk all over the other. You need to let her know that yoour not in it to get hurt. Why dont you do something about it. And no hun, dont kill yourself.
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2006-10-21 20:18:35 · answer #5 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion.....let her go live with her lovers and you enjoy the rest of your life. Don't kill yourself. Make the most of the time you have!!!!!!
2006-10-21 20:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by fungirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa!!!!!!! how come ur still livin wid her and doin...xxx!!!
1 don do dat
2 try and talk to ur wife freely abt her cheating on u and of the disease
3 instead of makin a bad relation wid her try to make it more better....
2006-10-21 20:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all killing her,will not help you ,kicking her out -might , a little any way . and go get treated for your health problem . that's just about all you can do.and good luck to you .
2006-10-21 20:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her. imagine hw u woud feel it was the other way round. dont kill urself
2006-10-21 20:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by Fairy*Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, im pretty sure there are pills for AIDS, but they dont work well, hmm well..
2006-10-21 20:21:55 · answer #10 · answered by Pie Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋