Ok..I love my husband and would never ever cheat on him, but we were in the grocery store, and I saw this man. Something about him made my heart skip a beat. It wasn't that he was all that gorgeous or anything..just did something to me. What was that all about?
Has this ever happened to you when you were happily in love?
2006-10-21 19:44:49 · 17 answers · asked by Nikki Tesla 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
yes after 35 yr.s-think it has something to do with seeing a trait that you see in your loved 1 just makes your heart flutter even tho you don't even know that person
happy day
old geezer
2006-10-21 20:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by Charles W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you get married it doesn't mean you are no longer visually stimulated by other people, it's the same as when you see a good looking moviestar on film. And if you're worried that looking at a person other than your husband is cheating stop worrying, men are the most visual creatures on earth, they really understand the whole issue of looking at other people. Actually, I've never understood why women get so upset when their husbands look at other women, the more open men can be with their partners about what they like to see the easier it is to develop initimacy between a couple
2006-10-22 03:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by ts 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the time a woman is just as a man is when it comes to the upposite sex although we have more self control. We would look at a guy and think mmm... Now my husband works a lot of hot guys and i always think if i was only younger! Don't have a worry you can window shop but don't go into the store for information because you just might stop window shopping and actually make a purchase.
2006-10-22 02:50:52 · answer #3 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everyone gets that once in a while. Women catch my eye sometimes, I Love and would never cheat on my wife but I am still a red blooded man dammit!!!!!!
btw Tesla Rocks, the man and the band!!!
2006-10-22 02:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by rswdew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never thought oh lets cheat, but its perfectly normal to see a man that attracts you some how and say, "I'd like a peice of that". LIke your mans never said something like that about a "hot chick".Your married not dead! Look, but don't touch. Just cause you have no money it doesn't mean you can't window shop. Woman are good at shopping it's in our DNA.
2006-10-22 02:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by brandiwine72 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I was very in love with a woman when I was in college. All other women were like a sister to me; my girl had my undivided attention. One day an attractive woman was hired on my job and she came and sat next to me. She was very beautiful and wore glasses (which really drove me crazy). She started a conversation with me that included the question "so ... do you live on campus?" I enjoyed talking to her and didn't really feel vulnerable until she got up and walked away. When I saw her behind, I heard a 4 part harmony from Heaven, sunshine came in the room, and I thought "WOW !!! She has a WONDERFUL ***". It scared me, because I knew if she made me an offer - I couldn't refuse. Guard your heart.
2006-10-22 02:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by elthe3rd 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
pher·o·mone - n. A chemical secreted by an animal, especially an insect, that influences the behavior or development of others of the same species, often functioning as an attractant of the opposite sex.
It's not your fault. It's a chemical thing and it's human nature. You may be married, but you are not dead. If you never act on your impulses you will be fine. It's normal...like when I see Jon Bon Jovi...LOL
2006-10-22 02:50:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
LOL
Yes that is normal. It's always the grocery store this happens at. You are just kinda bored so you are noticing things. You will be ok....It's very normal to do that.
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2006-10-22 02:53:51 · answer #8 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really think there's chemistry you get from people. Someone who does it for one person will be overlooked by another. We're designed that way so it's not so much with the competition. I'd be more worried if you persued this but it sounds like you have no intention of doing so so I'd not worry about it.
2006-10-22 03:29:35 · answer #9 · answered by shirazzza 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes , but if you are happy in love with your husband, can cross this moment . Will appeare the other similar situation in your life because is in human nature . It is up to you to try how deep is this kind of sea , but don"t forget you are still married .
2006-10-22 02:55:39 · answer #10 · answered by fleak 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋