I am 29, 2 years married, no kids, my husband is in his early 40s. I wanted to have sex everyday, he cant do it coz he is tired or not feel like doing it...all he could to is once or twice a week. I am not fat. I do lapdance to him, wear nice clothes sexy to, i am size 3. 5'2, latina, i just do everything coz i love him....
2006-10-21 19:33:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Seems to me that he has lived his life and you still want to live yours, I bet that he was all into you to get you to marry him. and after the marriage seems he thinks he doesn't have to do anything to keep you. You only have one life and before you know it, your 30's will pass you by. do you want to be asking this question in 10 years?
2006-10-21 19:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by nfgatcer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would guess, hate to say it, he's just gotten used to you. Mine did the same thing and he's around the same age. I think tha's their mid-life crisis years. My girlfriend and I were joking around about it the other day and she said that. It seems in the beginning they're all hot and bothered and then all of a sudden the "honeymoon's over." Then if you start ignoring them, all of a sudden they think you're fooling around because you give up and watch TV or find something to do so you don't bother them. Maybe try and talk to him and see what the problem is. He may be run down from working or something. That's usually a good excuse for them. Sometimes it could be true. Could be he feels funny about his body or something. You're going to have to talk to him if it's bothering you this much. Maybe get ahold of a counselor or doctor if it's really bothering you and you go talk to them and see what they suggest. The Mental Health Center is a good place to go that won't take you for a bunch of money. It's better to get the situation taken care of if you really love him before you do want to start wandering because you feel he isn't interested. I'd check alot of things out. It could be so many things causing it. Including things you may not like. Sorry to say.
Good luck.
2006-10-22 02:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by one_sahara 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A size 3 latina.....gain weight. And before you get all edgey I am Panamanian.
On a serious note at 29, or any age, you do not want to be in a marriage that does not fulfill your needs. And this includes sexual needs. Try to get help, it could be a medical problem, it could be psychological. If help does not work or he is resisant get a divorce. You will not be a selfish person for doing so.
2006-10-22 02:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by Double GEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked for it ,Little Mary Sunshine!He is a man in his 40's not a studly 20's type of guy!
If he is healthy otherwise,then you just have to slow down or move on!
Those who say age is just a number,need to spend a little time in the average middle age body!
The only reason older men married younger women in the earlier years ,was to have children.Think those women got alot of action?
All these older guys out there clammering afterthe little girls,need to catch a snap!
You moron!She looks good on your arm,but her frustration will win out over your money or looks if there isn't any lovin!Are you prepared to share with a younger man?Mabey lose her entirely?How embarrassing is that?
2006-10-22 03:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by Frogmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make them get it up. Maybe you should use self stimulation for the 5 or 6 days he doesn't want it. You could do it in front of him, which would still make you feel close to him and who knows, it may even turn him on a bit.
2006-10-22 02:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell hun I wish I could get in once or twice a week. Ive been married for 5 months(been together 6 years) and now I'm lucky to get it once a month. my mans 30 but his job is kickin his ***. So I wouldn't doubt he is tired.
2006-10-22 02:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by Jade2000 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are in the general age group for your sexual peak. His was when he was 18. It is just natures very cruel joke.
2006-10-22 02:48:36 · answer #7 · answered by Colleen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. It's just the way you feel. That is normal! I know from past experience....
2006-10-22 02:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have married my cousin's husband instead... she told us that her husband used to be able to do it 8 times...lol... now only 3x> in one day....lol. Lucky her, heh?!
2006-10-22 03:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta let him work for it. You'll be ready no matter what, so let him come to you hun. good luck!
2006-10-22 03:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋