Has anybody ever felt like giving up and just saying F*** It!! Nobody could possibly understand what was going on in your life, even if they offered to help, they wouldnt have the right answers. How do you get rid of the negativity?
2006-10-21 19:18:16 · 12 answers · asked by ima_aso 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
cry in a pillow...
it really works
2006-10-21 19:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is one loaded question and the answer to it for me is YES! You have no idea or maybe you do, how much that one question relates to my life. I've already tried explaining it to some and they look at me like I am totally freaked out. Some have pretended to understand and others did, but guess what they did? They moved in on the situation at the right time and screwed everything up big time. Oh forget it! Just know that I am in the same boat and it sucks. I can't rid myself of the negativity.. That's the biggest issue. I think I'm making progress and boom, I slide right back into oblivion and darkness, hatred, jealousies. The list goes on..........
2006-10-21 19:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by silhouette 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the time, it happens to me a lot. Glad to know that someone out there is trying to fight back against this too. The way I battle it out is to find a source, say boyfriend/girlfriend or something to do and look forward to that person or that something to do. Keep doing it, keep yourself occupied and you will soon forget about that. Don't worry about what others compliment, but rather be more worried about you. They will not know how good or bad you are and no reason for them to know anyways. Just believe in yourself and don't give up. Fight back. Try Chinese green tea, that will relax you and make you feel better.
2006-10-21 19:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by RYO 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The negativity comes from the hole that people and you have made inside of you. People do this so people can't hurt them or get close to them because if they did then they wouldn't like what they see. or understand. You are the only one who can stop this because you let it in. You have to find what made you that way . and kill it in your mind. not in real life!!! then you also need to find someone that you can talk to that won't talk back that will just hear you. Because if you talk about it . It is easier for you to let go of the pain.
2006-10-21 19:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get rid of negative thoughts is think about something that feel good to you. We are all surrounded by negative thoughts all the time from newspaper, t.v. and others. So take charge of your own mind and think only about what you want., it is called deiberate creating. If you want to know more about this go to a web site abraham-hicks. com , start with their free CD and you take it from there. Happy trails to you.
2006-10-21 20:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by bonnie f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, I live it everyday. But, I also try to be conscience of it, and remind myself of positives (sometimes hard to see, i know).
Not sure of your case, but for me, I have a few people who I do believe live to make me miserable. So, it's hard to keep you chin up and a smile on your face when others try to drag you down.
But, at some point, you have to take control of your life, and find the positive. Be grateful for life itself, and realize that people and things can try to make you mad or break you down, but it's all in how you react.
2006-10-21 19:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by star22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am going through something like that ..i have anxiety /panic attacks all the time because i am going through alotta stuff trying to raise my children in a good positive way and my husbands family thinks its normal to smoke and party around kids or whatever and they all just call me crazy when i keep telling them no all iwant is the best and deep inside i feel like im going to explode because none of them understand
so i just do positive things and smile in all there faces ...so just go do positve things for yourself it just matters what it really is they dont get if u have no $ problems id go out and fix myself up little by little or if its $ problems you have along with other similar family issues like i have id do what i do keep doing the good things to better your life and just smile in peoples faces ...
i havent found anyone who understands what im trying to do to better mine and my kids life all i do is get talked bad about .just keep moving to come out on the top and keep smileing
2006-10-21 20:01:55 · answer #7 · answered by lilrnkinn942 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea when I speak German to my friends that have no clue what im talking about. Oh wait you mean the other thjing yea I do feel like that a lot. Even when Im speaking engrish.
2016-03-18 22:45:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way. I have four kids and a husband who works all the time. Theres no way to get rid of the negativity unless someone did have all the right answers.
2006-10-21 19:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by amandaped25 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Seems like no one gives a flying f***.More or less. F*** OFF AND DIE WHY DON'T YOU? Pretty much what I think they feel about me some times.
2006-10-21 19:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screaming and crying talk to friends and just listen-who knows the may have your cure?
2006-10-21 19:22:17 · answer #11 · answered by Blue Angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋