his family never like me to start with and he would always take our problems to them so it gave them a more reason not to like me to fill his head with garbage,i wentout on him as we were seperated he forgive me for it and took me back then he throws it in my face
2006-10-21 19:03:34 · 9 answers · asked by kdkc06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
GO to t therapist and seeif he';ds come with you for couples counseling., He is very much a baby and needs to valuye you and not pull stunts like that., He is immatire. IOf yuu are in therapy and he won;t go with youl, keeop going alone. YOu will learn how not to allow him to abuse you.
Also go to Codependents anonymous meetings. They will teach you boundariees and how not to allow abuse.
2006-10-21 19:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can not forgive and forget you will live your life in misery with him.....the past is the past and if he took you back then he has a problem that you need to take care of or live in misery because he will not forget.....his family on the other hand needs to stay out of it, because they do not know how he is......it is up to you if you want to live that way
2006-10-22 02:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anastacia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Separated,,,that means married, you should be glad that he is trying to forgive you..it's not his family, it's what you did, maybe the two of you can get past it, when you own up to it....it's what you did get it.
2006-10-22 02:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't actually forgive you if he continues to throw it in your face. you could try seeking couple counseling.
2006-10-22 02:06:53 · answer #4 · answered by TLC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S OVER. HE SOUNDS LIKE A P U S S Y!
2006-10-22 03:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by i'm smart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats totally unfair........if u were welcomed back........then forgiveness must, must be practiced.............do u want to be with him?????????? i would consider departing again, or does he need a formal apology?
2006-10-22 02:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by blkhawk51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he never forgave you --- he said it(didn't mean it) his real intention is to use it against you.... as you are now aware of that fact
2006-10-22 02:14:14 · answer #7 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you cheated on your marriage...what were you expecting?
2006-10-22 05:00:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ain't that the sh_it?
2006-10-22 02:08:14 · answer #9 · answered by bad dog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋