I need a back massage real bad because i can barely move my back is so sore and your husband does not want to help? What should I do if it is too late to call a massage therapist?
2006-10-21 18:42:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would be hurt .. Your husband is supposed to do everything to make you feel better. Call a massage therapist and get the help you need.
2006-10-21 18:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by xoxocindysxoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you massage his back for him when he needs it? Why don't you tell him that if he does your back you will do his. And yes,your husband should do that for you. Touch and massage is healing. I have Rheumotoid Arthritis and if it wasn't for my husband I would suffer worse than I do. I am very grateful for him,but then I do the same for him. That's how it is suppose to be. Good Luck.
2006-10-21 18:47:48 · answer #2 · answered by Shortydeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt be affended a im due with baby #5 in a few weeks and well everything hurts really bad. my husband drives semi so hes not home much to help with anything but the bills. well i just told him thats fine ill take 2 tylenol, a hot shower and get a message that costed 200$ in the morning all on him. well he came home 3 days later and rubbed me from head to toe, let me get all the sleep i needed and took care of everything from mopping the floor , dishes, kids, meals, laundry, and running arrands. hit em where it hurts them the most in they wallets. good luck hopefully when he get the bill he wont be affended.....lol
2006-10-21 18:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by evilella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just take notes and pay him back later! Actually, a couple of Advil (or the like) and a warm bath usually work for me. A jacuzzi is better, but a pair of strong hands in the right place works best.
2006-10-21 18:48:12 · answer #4 · answered by bondo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a recurrent ailment I'm not suprised. For some reason people close to you get used to the fact that you're in pain and stop caring after awhile. There's really nothing to do about it. Sorry.
2006-10-21 20:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by evilangelfaery919 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him for not being understanding and go to a massage therapist or a friend who is willing to help you out ......my hubby was the same way....If he does not want to do it then get someone who will.....And let your hubby know that such and such massaged your back for you......You tell him that he is sorry.....im sorry but he is.....
2006-10-21 18:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anastacia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you get offended find out why he doesn't want to help. Don't just blow up. If all else failes a good hot bath will really help.
2006-10-21 18:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by ktpt 4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice husband you have. Can't be bothered to help you with a little pain.
2006-10-21 18:45:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apply arnica mother tincture on the painful are. It is homeophathic medicine.
2006-10-21 18:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a way yes you should. He really should want to help you to make you feel better.
2006-10-21 18:44:04 · answer #10 · answered by ◙Blue-Eyed♥Red-Headed♥Bella◙ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋