2006-10-21 18:20:15 · 18 answers · asked by jasmine w 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Have sex three times a week.
Having regular sex is the best way to get pregnant. Couples often try to time everything perfectly for ovulation but do not have sex when they think they are not ovulating. It is true that sex that is not within the time of ovulation will not result in pregnancy. However, because women do not always ovulate when they think they will, having sex three times a week will help to a woman cover her bases, so to speak, and not miss an opportunity to get pregnant.
2. Use an ovulation prediction kit or fertility monitor.
Using an ovulation kit to predict when you are ovulating will improve your chances of getting pregnant. For many women charting or other methods of ovulation prediction are too confusing. Ovulation prediction kits work by reading LH surges prior to ovulation. They are relatively easy to use and are generally accurate for predicting ovulation. Fertility monitors, such as the Clear Blue Easy monitor, are also a worthwhile investment if you would like to get pregnant faster. Fertility monitors are similar to ovulation prediction kits in that they read changes in LH but they also read changes in other hormones and don’t require any guesswork for couples. They are easy to use and will tell you when the best time to get pregnant is.
3. Have sex before ovulation (not after).
Sometimes couples get confused about the best time to have sex in relationship to ovulation. You have a small window of time each month to get pregnant. After a woman ovulates the egg will survive approximately 24 hours. Sperm, on the other hand, will live for up to three to five days. This is why having sex two to three days before ovulation will increase your chances of getting pregnant. Don’t wait until the day you ovulate to have sex. Your partner’s sperm will last longer than your egg and you don’t want to miss an opportunity by waiting.
4. Don’t rely on the Calendar method for predicting ovulation.
A lot of couples have heard to have sex around day fourteen of your cycle. This is based on the calendar method and assumes that you have a regular 28-day cycle and ovulate mid-cycle. Although this is better than just picking an arbitrary day to have sex, it is not a very accurate way to predict when you ovulate. Many women do not ovulate on day fourteen and knowing precisely when you ovulate will help you time intercourse better. Ovulation prediction kits, looking at previous months bbt charts, or watching for body cues will help you to determine when you ovulate.
5. Charting may not be the best way to predict ovulation.
Charting is great for tracking your cycle but it does have disadvantages. By the time you can see ovulation on a bbt chart, you have already ovulated. It is good to chart so you can track your cycles, see if you ovulate the same time each month, and also so you can look back on your cycle and see if you timed things right. But if this is your first cycle trying to get pregnant or if you are not ovulating at the same time each month, an ovulation prediction kit would be more helpful.
6. See a doctor before you start trying to get pregnant.
Make sure you are in good health and have had a regular check up from your OBGYN or medical provider. Untreated infections, sexually transmitted diseases, or poor health can affect your chances of getting pregnant. Its good to see a doctor as well as start taking prenatal vitamins prior to trying to conceive.
7. Don’t smoke, drink alcohol, or abuse drugs when trying to get pregnant.
This may seem like common sense but many women do try to get pregnant while smoking, drinking or using drugs. Smoking, drugs, and alcohol can affect your fertility. It will also affect your unborn child. It is important to stop smoking or using drugs and alcohol before getting pregnant and not wait until you find out you are pregnant.
8. Have enjoyable sex.
Sometimes when couples are trying to conceive, sex becomes a job or function of reproduction and is not as enjoyable. Plan a romantic evening or try something different to spice things up. How you are feeling sexually may factor into your chances of getting pregnant. Some researchers believe that having an orgasm during sex increases your chances of getting pregnant. For women, the spasmic movements of orgasm will help pull the sperm into the uterus and for men a better orgasm may increase the man’s sperm count.
9. Have sex in positions that keep sperm inside the vagina longer.
The missionary position is a good position to use when trying to get pregnant. Avoid positions where the woman is on top. Gravity will allow sperm to leak out with these positions. Also try placing a pillow under your hips to help tilt your pelvis and keep the sperm in longer. Don’t get up right after sex. Try to relax and allow the sperm to stay in the vagina as long as possible.
10. There is no such thing as trying too hard to get pregnant.
Most couples get pregnant within a year of trying. If you have not gotten pregnant within a year consult your doctor for advice
2006-10-21 18:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by chapped lips 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
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2016-04-25 05:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by Mose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask yourself y are u trying to get pregnant at such a young age kids take a lot of money to raise i had my first at 19, second at 20 and my third at 24. you have plenty of years to go out and make babies you havent had a chance to enjoy your life yet. A baby is a HUGE responsiblilty. Enjoy your youth and do things because once you have a kid the fun is over all your money is spent on the kids and worrying about where your gonna crap the money for all the things they need and want. Go to college and travel do the things you want to do before you have kids i wish i would have wiated ps kids also play hell on a sex life mine are 18 16 and 12 believe me wait get an education and a good job so you can afford it it breaks my heart when my kids ask for things like money to play sports or a candy bar and i have to say no because the moneys just not there but if your determined to have a baby make sure you have a man that will be there for you being a single mother sucks ive been there the only way is to have lots of sex if its ment to be it will happen unless you have fertility issues or your partner does but honestly go out have fun and wait
2006-10-21 20:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by kissfan1979 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let me give u a piece of advice, you are not ready for motherhood, u have barely lived. although u may feel like this is something u want later on u will wish u waited a little longer. u may want to go out with friends and not be able to cause u are stuck at home with baby. they are alot of hard work and not all fun and games. u have plenty of time to have kids and stuff y the rush. with u being only 19 i am sure u don't have a career going yet, maybe u oughta start one so u will be financially secure . as babies can get very expensive and if u are not financially ready then u will be setting yourself up for a very hard life, i have 3 children all very young when i had them, and i am not as financially stable as i should be
2006-10-21 18:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
OMG! I have been married and i love it but kids?!?! I am about to be 21 and the last thing i want to worry about is having a baby i want to party and enjoy being married! How could you at 19 even if you are married think you want one now? Even With all of the money in the world if ya wait like 5yrs you will have so much to offer a child then atleast much more than you can now! I am with the other girl it sounds kinda strange wanting a child now are you trying to trap someone? WTF calm down and close your legs!
2006-10-23 10:42:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to babyzone.com or babycenter.com and do a personal ovulation calander. However I was 19 and I recommend you WAIT! I even owned a home at that time.. most babies are healthy but mine had CP learning delays, etc due to poor delivery. Being young is hard enough , you could have other problems to go wit it. I could not find a day care, so did my own. Anyway. I also had twins at 36 so Ive done young a d old, both have tough and easy parts. . Be kind to yourself! Make sure you are stable and love yourself first. Your baby deserves that.
2006-10-21 18:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by Susan P 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Why are you so desperate to get pregnant at 19 years old? Are you married? Relax and enjoy being young for a few years before you get pregnant.
2006-10-21 18:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by prettycoloredrocks 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Are you doing this to keep a guy or something!!? I think wanting it so quick seems fishy at 19. Awfully young to feel pressure about having a baby quick.
2006-10-21 18:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by brat789456 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you are married I say don't be in a rush let nature take it's course . I had my first @ 20 . He is now almost 11 yrs old . SO I say don't be in a rush enjoy life while you have no mommy responsibilities
2006-10-21 18:44:36 · answer #9 · answered by baby_blue316 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have your life ahead of you don't rush into anything you are not ready for. How can you support the baby. You should not depend on others to pay for it. If you like kids so much try working for a daycare center.
2006-10-21 20:39:12 · answer #10 · answered by daydreamer862005 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it's God's way of saying you're not ready and too young. Kids will change your life forever. Enjoy each other before you have to settle down.
2006-10-21 18:28:09 · answer #11 · answered by Fartbuster 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋