I love my boyfriend,he loves me too,its a long distance relationship,we have been together for about 2years,now we are planning to get married after my graduation,i want to meet up with him next year but the problem is that my parents want me to leave him coz they dont trust that boy,its just that they dont like me chatting to boys online,how can i make my parents understand how much he means to me,he is my best friend my love and i want to spend my whole life with him and no one else,mummy doesnt allow me to chat to him for more than an hour she says its wasting of time,i am totally honest with my parents and with my boyfriend,he knows that my parents dont like me chatting to him,he has told his family about me and they like me very much so the problem is from my side only,my parents have objection to our friendship,help me!
2006-10-21 18:12:09 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let him impress your parents. I mean leave him with your parents and make sure that your parents do not know his identity. Let your parents meet him as a stranger and chat with him. After a while you appear and tell your parents that he's your boyfriend? Good luck.
2006-10-21 18:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by Shin-ii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has been my experience that others see things we dont when we are in love. you might need to take a step back and really listen to what your parents are saying and see if you might be able to see their point of view.
also, marrying right out of high school is just crazy. you are way too young. i did that and the marriage lasted about a year. most young marriages dont make it. you need time to be free, to find a job you enjoy, to date around and really find out what you are looking for in a man. there are some aspects you dont even think about until after dating a couple of different guys. spending the rest of your life with someone is not a decision to make lightly.
2006-10-22 01:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi ,,nausheen ( beautiful name)
"we make them cry who care for us, we cry for them who never care for us, we care for them who will never cry for us"
i have said this coz its human nature,,, u have asked question and we just trust ur words and answer as we dont know u,,,
dear its u who has to decide that who cares for u,,,,,
love is very good everybody needs it but it should not ruin the dream of ur parents,,, ur mother has also loved u 9 months more then anybody in this world whats the answer to her,,,
love deemands a lot,,,,,
life is diffrent take ur time convince ur parents,, coz they r the people who will think withought any deemands for u.. other relation deemamands first,,,,
so just give a proper thought there is diffrent life ahead u... love life married life r two opposite lifes...
take care,,
best of luck
dr. hitesh
2006-10-22 01:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by Hitesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him visit you, so your family can get to know him better. Don't jump into marriage right away. You need to spend more time with him in person to see if he is the right guy for you.
2006-10-22 01:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you haven't seen him, you met him on the internet, then you're getting married already? what you should do is meet him in person for all you know he's not who he is when he's chatting with you.
2006-10-22 01:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by 'donna' 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋