I'm 15, and my best friend whom i was friends with since about three years old moved away a year ago. We really did not hang out a lot the last year and a half before she moved, but when she suddenly told me that she was i was devestated. it is not like i didnt spend any time with her but it was that i didnt spend as much as we used to.
I regret not spending time with her, and now if i try to contact her she doesn't respond. how can i move on, stop having nostalgic moments, and stop regretting the "what ifs" like she has?
2006-10-21 18:01:35 · 11 answers · asked by peexinxmyxpants 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When I was 14, my lifelong best friend moved away too. I cried for weeks. We eventually lost contact and haven't seen or heard from eachother for over 10 years. I still think of her fondly, but I know we aren't likely to see eachother again. It is difficult, but like everyone else says, time does heal. That's a part of life. Most friends will come into your life for a season and when their purpose in your life is done, they leave. We grow out or away from our friends that we grow up with. It will happen your whole life. Just appreciate the time you have or had together. Just tell yourself she was there when you needed her. Now her season has passed and you need to move on. You will find more friends.
2006-10-21 18:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing that you can do to "move on" is to not think about her as much. Give yourself an opportunity to heal your wounds and continue to make new friends. Let this particular situation be a learning experience for you. Everyone learns a lesson about life so that mistakes will not be repeated. Don't regret that you didn't spend time with her. It happened during that time period and you cannot change that. Keep in mind that things do happen for a reason. I hope my advice helps you. Good luck.
2006-10-21 18:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a new friend! If she didn't respond with all your effort, it means that she didn't value your friendship the way you do. Stop spending too much of your time with her. The best way to move on, go out and find a new one or make yourself busy. I think your studying at your age, so focus your attention to your studies and come to think of it, if the right time comes and you graduated, she will be proud of you!
2006-10-21 18:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by dumbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, your friend moved away. It must be lonely. Don't u go to school? You may go to college some day. Shouldn't u concentrate on yr school work? Friends will come and go in your life. But you can prepare to your future NOW- This is the time to prepare, you can still make friends too.
2006-10-21 18:07:22 · answer #4 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way that I would deal with this situation is to get a new best friend and stop dwelling over her no what can replace her but i bet someone good enough will come close
2006-10-21 18:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one reason she isnt responding is maybe she was hurt when you spent less time with her with the remaining time she was around. but time has a way of healing wounds. let her have her time of healing for now. im sure when she is over with the pain, shell be open minded. meantime, you enjoy your time with the company of new friends. find someone, and brigthen his/her day. that way, you'll be happier knowing you made someone's day brigther.
2006-10-21 18:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by mela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't regret any more. You can act only in present. Try to be best friend of any other girl.
2006-10-21 18:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by aksolankius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then she wasn't the friend you thought she was,remember the good times and move on.
2006-10-21 18:04:13 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We must learn to accept changes and move on, friendship is not one person decision..
2006-10-21 18:09:29 · answer #9 · answered by Drone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww, thats sweet. go out and make more friends. stay busy. when one door closes another one opens.
good luck.
2006-10-21 18:05:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋