ok my boyfriend has been seeing his friends a few times during the week..i just wanted one night (tongiht) to be with him soo bad seeing that tomorrow is both our days off and we can spend it together...but he preferes going out to his friends house to get drunk...cuz he wants to see his friends..he says im trying to control him...am i ? why are men so ugh!!!!!
2006-10-21 17:32:30 · 7 answers · asked by SomeOne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he'd rather be with his friends & get drunk than spend time with you he's not mature enough for a serious relationship. You need to find someone else.
2006-10-21 17:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are certainly not over-reacting. Guys just don't know how to prioritise matters at times. The same happened to me.
Either you insist or give a suggestion for him to bring you along?
2006-10-22 00:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using guilt to get you to back off when in actuality it sounds like he likes the idea of having a girlfriend he just does not want to be a boyfriend. kick him to the curb and find someone who wants to be with you. and not just a title either.
2006-10-22 00:55:28 · answer #3 · answered by Cinder M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you really feel. I ask him when will he make some time for you. Next time he wants to do something then you should tell him you are hanging out with your friends.
2006-10-22 00:50:16 · answer #4 · answered by Jazzie_J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u are not controlling him. He should make time for you too. You should come first before his friends. Men were born like that...they are retarded
2006-10-22 00:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by rhondasumpter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is not done partying with his friends....he needs to finish growing up. and he should of thought about this before he had a girlfriend to leave sitting at home , huh?
2006-10-22 00:37:12 · answer #6 · answered by kierstead 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ask him if his preference is to be with them or yourself.............i always preferred being with the guys.......and my marital status is a prime indicator of misplaced loyalty.
2006-10-22 00:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by blkhawk51 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋