I was dating this guy who is going to move out of the state in 8 or 9 months so where I thought we were heading for a serious relationship by him talking about marriage, a baby, and being in love, etc. I told him that I did not want to pursue relationship anymore #1 because I was mad #2 I felt like I was being lead on because why did you not tell me you were moving out of the state, and #3 When he told me about the move he said can we remain friends. I was like hell no, and how dare you. The move is a career move meaning he is moving to get a job that he "can" get in our state but in another state "if" he gets the same job it will pay more money. Naturally he was upset with my reaction, and has not talked to me since. So I don't know if I over reacted or did I do the right thing by saying why would I spend the next 8 or 9 months getting close to you when you are going to leave me anyway.
2006-10-21 17:16:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have a house and everything in my state so I can't just leave even if he said lets wait til then and lets see if we make it then you can come with me which he didn’t by the way he said how can we remain friends.
2006-10-21 17:16:55 · update #1
Wait and watch. If in the mean time, u get some one better u might like to get hooked on to him.
2006-10-21 17:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, too much headache. If the relationship from beginning is bad is just waisting time to continue. Move on
2006-10-22 00:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by Toto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen there are a lot of fish in the sea, and you sound like you have your head on straight and you have your s#@t together. So buger him and look out for you and the right one will show up I promise.
2006-10-22 00:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by matt v 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I broke up with a girl, or she broke up with me, it was over. That was it. Done, over, finis, never went out together again, and got on with our lives. As I have said before, an EX is just that. An EX.......
2006-10-22 00:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by Bikerbutt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then you broke it off right?Move on.Who cares at this point,you didn't want to and wouldn't even if he had told you up front.Let it go.
2006-10-22 00:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u deffinately didnt over react.....he just wanted to use u for sex for the next 9 months.......jerk...dont remain friends it never works
2006-10-22 00:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jadems 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF BOTH OF YOU KNOW THAT THE RELATIONSHIP IS GOING
THROUGH SOME CHANGES BECAUSE OF DIFFERENT THINGS
THAT GOING ON IN BOTH OF YOUR LIFE, THEN YOU SHOULD JUST LEAVE IT ALONG AND FOCUS ON THE
FUTURE. OTHER WISE YOU WILL BOTH CONTINUE IN
THIS PATTERN.
2006-10-22 00:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wood just 4 the fun
2006-10-22 00:17:53 · answer #8 · answered by dorianfreeman@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id b with some1 else already
2006-10-22 00:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by blah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends why you broke up and if you think its really worth it.
2006-10-22 00:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by d_leoncavallo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋