my friends hate him. i liked this guy since i ever liked him. my friends now hate me cuz i liked him. i don't know if he hates me. he smiles at me and flirts but i don't think he likes me. im so confused
2006-10-21 17:13:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well I can't call your friends, friends if they are not supportive of your feelings. Do they have justified reasons for thier dislike? if not then they should be accepting and respectful of your feelings and not be putting you in this difficult position. As for the guy you could ask him if he would like to go out. Then you would know if he is interested in you. I hope this helps
2006-10-21 17:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with what you feel. Let the friends go to hell. Your thoughts should not be constrained with what others think. If your friends hate you because you like this guy then it signifies their short sightedness where they are not able to respect your choice. They are intervening with their personal beliefs and bringing the same in your friendship. It is better not to have such friends.
2006-10-22 00:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by Abhishek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends hate you because you like a guy? Sounds to me they were never really your "friends". A true friend may ask, "what the heck is wrong with you...or what are you thinking...." and they may tease you...but a real friend never stops being your friend.
2006-10-22 00:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by CK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends probably don't like him because maybe they are jealous. Maybe theyknow that he really likes you and don't want to see you happy. Your friends can not run your heart.. You need to follow what your heart is feling and let love take its course. If they are really your friends, if it doesnt work out, they will be there for you in the end.. Think abou that.
2006-10-22 00:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your friends don't stand by you and decide to turn there back on you because of a guy you like. then they are not your true frineds. my fiance had the same problem in the beginning but now all is well.
2006-10-22 00:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by jmj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah we all love and respect our friend's but to they don't have to date he. But if his acting funny or if your friends are telling you something that has the potential to be true then check it out maybe your friend's are right for hating him. Bout don't let them be the deciding factor i your relationships
2006-10-22 00:19:44 · answer #6 · answered by lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am sorry to say this but this cracks me up a lot becuase whaqt you should do is say forget your freinds they dont control you you do what ever you want and no one is going to stop you you should not care if they like him or hate him if you want the guy go for it it seems that he dosen't hate you try it
2006-10-22 00:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by LUIS ROSA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont bother about your friends...since you like him, and you are confused, this what you should do before anyone else do > try your best way to tell him and show him your interest without much waste of time...may be he is waiting for you too...
2006-10-22 00:19:27 · answer #8 · answered by Ur Master Captain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends aren't being good friends if they expect you to hate people they hate just be cause they...hate him. They can't force their opinons onto you. and he may like you, it's a good possibility
2006-10-22 00:23:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what who cares what ur riends think and if they hate you because of who u like the are not true friends a true friend would have ur back and not leave because they don't like him... think about it
2006-10-22 00:17:13 · answer #10 · answered by Tay Tay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋