Me and my boyfriend plan on going to six flags together. Now up until the night before,he said no we(us) shouldn't go because i work nights and i'll be late. So, he went with his friends and lefted me home. now, while he's having fun i'm at work. we been together 4 3years 1/2 and i really felt heart broken. what should i do?
2006-10-21 17:01:43 · 12 answers · asked by kayla b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he lied to you to hang with his friends, that's a big no no. Don't let the years you've been together stop you from leaving for something he did wrong. If you want, make a list of the good things and bad things of him/the relationship and weigh it out. Sometimes its sad to break up with someone for something small, depending on how many times he's lied to you b4. He shouldn't have lied to you about wanting to go with his friends instead of you. That means he's not honest with you. Imagine what else he could be lieing to you about. Find out why he lied. Sometimes people lie for stupid reasons that may not make sense to anyone else. If you can't find out the truth of why he would lie to you about something that didn't have to be kept hidden, it's just not right. I mean, my boy-friend would always tell me, whether I like it or not, where he goes and whom he's with. He understands that I worry about him so he texts me or leaves me messages if I don't answer. If we plan to go out somewhere, just the two of us, he makes sure he tells his friends/cousins that it's just the two of us, so they won't change his mind, if or when they call him while we're out together. He also tells them that they can plan something, for just them, another day.
2006-10-21 17:15:52 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really nothing that you can do since he is gone already. When he gets back tell him how you really feel. Tell him if he wanted to go with his friends then he should have told you in the first place. You should not feel heart broken over this situation. It seems to be a minor problem. There may be other things that he has done that tops this. If you really love him just tell him you feel and don't make a big deal over it. Tell him that he has to make it up to you. Think of something big.
2006-10-22 00:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by Jazzie_J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you can make the same type of plans with some girlfriends.But definately let him know that he hurt your feelings.He may not know that he has hurt you.Most men dont think with their emotions they are practical thinkers and he was trying to help maybe.Talk to him and see what he says.But ultimately when it is all said and done there are always things you can do together at other times and six flags isnt going anywhere
2006-10-22 00:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be finding out who the hell was with him at six flags and why the two of you could not go and leave an hour early. That was very inconsiderate of him.. he would be on my **** list for a long time after that deal.
2006-10-22 00:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was wrong he shouldn't have gone without if you guys had planned on going together. Tell him how you feel. Then go the first chance you get whether it's with him or not is totally up to you.
2006-10-22 00:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's good for the goose is good for the gander. You should do the same thing to him. I mean make it hurt!! Get him really excited to go out and do something and then change your plans and leave him at home. Let him see how it feels. Good luck!
2006-10-22 00:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by soldierman69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that was very inconsiderate of him. As an option, he could have stayed to be with you and planned another trip where you both could go. I hate to hurt your feelings, but it sounds like he is just thinking of himself.... Rude...
2006-10-22 00:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by Bikerbutt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's worng because if he tells you that u'll be late and u didn't say anything abt that then hey he might want sum time to himself you kno if you guys like eachother then trust eachother tell him how you feel
2006-10-22 00:06:51 · answer #8 · answered by i_luv_ca2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need a new boyfriend...I've been married for sixteen years and that's no way to have a real relationship...If my wife can't go .....I don't go ..at least on "fun"stuff..hope this helps
2006-10-22 00:07:17 · answer #9 · answered by compused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make his life hell for the next month!!!! lol
2006-10-22 00:11:58 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋