Well, you've taken the first step when you say you don't want to live like this. You really have. Start with one small change. What thing comes to your mind that you would like to be different?
Usually when we are fed up or depressed we say yeah but I CAN'T change that. YOU can. Remember you are the master of your destiny, you decide what happens.
Start with that small change and you'll see the difference one small change can make.
Your life is NOT bad and nor are you. You're a teenager and you've made some mistakes.
If we didn't make mistakes we would never learn!
Take the first small step to turn your life in the direction you want and begin to create a future you'll be happy in.
Best wishes.
2006-10-22 04:41:20
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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We have all had our good times and our bad times. Being a teenager is a hard thing, and sometimes we make bad choices during that time. It does not mean that if we are unhappy with our lives, we can not change it. You have the power inside you to change your life, and start to make the right choices. As a teenager, I also skipped school a lot, smoked weed, and we used to drink almost every night. I am now married, the mother of three teenagers, and live my life day by day hoping everything works out.
I had a friend who broke into a warehouse and stole many items, he was caught by the police and went to jail for some time. After being released from Jail, he has turned his life around, he is married, has children and living happily.
Don't give up on happiness, sometimes it seems like it is way off and you will never have it, but in time it will find you. A 9 mm will only create unhappiness for you and those around you . The ones you love will suffer most for the wrong choice. Life is worth living, you have already noticed that this is not the way you want to live life, now just hold strong to that and make your life what you want it be.
2006-10-21 17:14:23
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answered by Patty 1
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You have made the first step....you don't want to continue like this....but make the next step and make a future for yourself. You are one of those individuals that can become someone special. Start by finding a church and talking to a pastor. If you really want to change, God will be there to answer your prayers. You are young and you have so many years ahead of you, hold your head high and live your life, make it count. Maybe someday you will be one of those extraordinary people who have made our world a better place to live. Take care of yourself and God bless.
2006-10-21 17:13:42
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answered by Rea 3
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You just have to hang in there, you have to believe that this is just a phase and its going to pass. Things get better and just think if you use that 9mm today you won't be able to find out what is in store for you tomorrow. You could win the lottery, invent something. Lots of things can happen tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, next week, next month, next year! Hang in there!
2006-10-21 17:07:18
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answered by Adelaide V 3
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no of course not, suicide is never an answer to anything. you asking for opinion about this and reaching out to people is a good sign. at least you can admit you have a problem. that's the first step. the question now is what do you plan to do about it? no not suicide. first turn to your family, maybe they can help. also, turn to the church . afterwards, you can turn to many help groups out there. ultimately, only you can turn your life around, but i'm telling you now, it's possible. don't lose hope.
2006-10-21 17:12:04
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answered by feeling blue 1
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first congratulations,you found out that the way you were living your live is not the way.
if you dont want to live like that,then chance it..,you have the choice..,so choose then..,using 9mm like you say,is not changing it,thats running away from it.
the more you allign yourself with what you should do,the happy'er you will become.
2006-10-21 17:13:14
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answered by byciclerabbit 3
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Carlos, the answer is Jesus Christ. A 9mm means death and God did not intend for anyone to commit suicide.
For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son so that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life. John 3:16
The answers to all questions are in God's word. There, you should seek answers, and with wise counsel of other devout believers.
God loves you and wants you to turn to him. Knowing him brings peace. All you have to do is pray this prayer, and mean it with all your heart and mind.
Heavenly Father:..........................................................................
I come to you in prayer asking for the forgiveness of
my Sins. I confess with my mouth and believe with my
heart that Jesus is your Son, And that he died on the
Cross at Calvary that I might be forgiven and have
Eternal Life in the Kingdom of Heaven. Father, I believe
that Jesus rose from the dead and I ask you right now
to come in to my life and be my personal Lord and
Savior. I repent of my Sins and will Worship you all the
day's of my Life!. Because your word is truth, I confess
with my mouth that I am Born Again and Cleansed
by the Blood of Jesus! In Jesus Name, Amen.
2006-10-21 17:13:55
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answer #7
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answered by muschlag 4
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Carlos,
your future is before you,take this opportunity and make it positive,you see how bed is to go that direction,why don't you speak out against,and save kids life,this will make you very happy,
2006-10-21 17:06:25
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answered by kitty 4
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You can change,I did.I smoke weed.I am and alcohol and not proud of it.Never relay seen a gun until somebody brought one two work a long time ago.I change my way You can change yours...................Please do it for yourself.
2006-10-21 17:12:51
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answered by Anonymous
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no, i don't.
who would want to clean up that mess?
how selfish of you...
are we done talking about you, yet?
come on. get a backbone.
2006-10-21 17:05:23
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answered by Anonymous
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