2006-10-21 16:58:20 · 14 answers · asked by inquiringmind 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You shouldnt have to sacrifice your heart for your morals because we do not choose who we fall in love with, when we get married to a person, at that moment we think that person is the one, but if you fall in love with someone else its not like you chose for it to happen, you cant deny love, and you cant "allow" yourself to love it just happens. We all make mistakes some bigger than others dont feel too bad just because others see you as a bad person for loving someone other than your spouse, most likely they havent been in the same situation and therefore shouldnt judge so harshly.
2006-10-21 17:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by Gracy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the thing is ,to fall in love mean to have a relationship with someone other than yopu r spouse,i am not saying sexually but still an intimate relationship.You have already sacrificed your morals so why sacrifice love as well.Just make sure you are doing the right thing and do it in a way that will cause the least amount of hurt to your spouse.Dontlet them know that you are leaving because of another.No reason to put salt in the wound
2006-10-21 17:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by Red 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lets see...........why did you put yourself in a position to fall in love with someone else if your married? Most people like people with high moral standards. You should have been in love when you got married. Hearts were made to be broken, morals last a life time.
2006-10-21 17:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing has happened to me. I met someone and we became friends. I didn't realize until a couple of months later that it wasn't just friendship drawing me toward him. I have met my soul mate. As some other people have said, you wouldn't have fallen in love if your marriage was in good shape. Another person said they remained in a loveless marriage for 17 years. I agree so much - don't waste any more of your or your husband's time trying to make something work when the love is gone. There is so much happiness out there that to be experienced and not wasted. Be kind to yourself and your husband.
2006-10-21 18:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by pookie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never stay in a marriage if you are not in love with your husband. I stayed married to my 1st hubby for 17 years "for the children" and it was the worst 17 years of my life. Do not sacrifice your personal happiness. If you don't love your husband get a divorce and start over. Never stay in a marriage where there is no love. It is not worth it. Take it from someone who knows. (I'm happily married now for 10 years to my soul mate!)
2006-10-21 17:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
A married person that falls in love with another person has no morals. Falling in love requires actions, and deliberate choices. It doesn't just "happen" Why not at least ask an honest question?
2006-10-21 17:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to do the right thing,If your cruel enough yes ruin anyones marriages by all means, but if you have concience and you dont want that things to haunted you, stay out of it..so that in the end,you can sleep better and didnt commit any sins at all. You can find a truly love with other peron by not stealing some other person to make you happy.
2006-10-21 17:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have already fallen in love with someone else, then you have broken your morals for allowing that to happen.
2006-10-21 17:02:43 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The hardest thing to do is to not sacrifice your morals...believe me, it is difficult, I know!
2006-10-21 18:24:44 · answer #9 · answered by LadyL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why wer you married to someone you were not truly in love with. True love cannot fail, or stop, or change. So why marry if you now just "in love " with someone else.
2006-10-21 17:02:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋