Is it cheating when?

Question

you like another person and that person knows it and you sweet talk each other but arent going out or meeting in person but your partner doesnt know about it?

Answer 1

If you have to ask, it is cheating. Obviously, you feel something to experience the guilt. Dont be so hard on yourself tho - we are only human and it is silly to think we will only be attracted to one person in our lifetime.

Answer 2

Yes it is and it is the worst kind of cheating. This is emotional cheating and is very serious it will only get worst because your partner doesnt know about it and you will get a little braver as the time passes because you think that you want be caught. Your feelings for this person will grow stronger and any little thing that your partner does to upset you will in your mind make it ok to call this other person. Before you know it the two of you will be meeting just to talk and it will more than likely turn physical because the connection the two of you share will become stronger. If you want your marriage to work just end this before it goes past where it is now.

Answer 3

Yes, it's still cheating when it's ' just ' sweet talk even arn't going out or meeting in person.

Comparison for more understanding...if you physically hit another a mark could be seen from that 'strike'. If you verbally abused, yelled at another no 'mark' can be seen, yet the deep hurt is still there just the same.

The same goes . . .

If you share a love relationship with your 'honey', and you go behind your 'honey's' back and flirt with another, you are effecting the trust and love aura of yours and your honeys love. Sneeking behind someone back, especially in the environment of a love relationship, whether the honey is aware of it or not...it is still 'felt' and it is cheating. Your cheating the trust of the agreed love you and your honey who's back your flirting behind.

You would'nt cut anothers arm just a little, so why 'just' flirt behind the back of your honey 'just a little'. A cut is a cut, a 'sweet talk' (flirting) is still a betrayal.

Answer 4

Emotions are worse than sex. If you really like this person, you are cheating in your heart. You may not have done anything but you want to because you care about the person.

I'd rather my wife have a meaningless one-night stand than what you are doing.

Answer 5

thats not cheating cheating is when you kiss another person or when you slept with the other person spouse now its not cheating but its wrong to do that becuz if your boyfreind found out he might get hurt or just dont give a damn but think this for a minute what happens if your boyfreind did this to you?what would you do?what would you say? and think this through and just break it off and just be freinds with him

Answer 6

Yes it is cheating. The way I decide if someone is cheating on someone is this plan and simple.......don't say or do anything that you wouldn't say or do in front of your mate.......mate being boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, etc...if you wouldn't do it in front of them it is cheating...plan and simple !!!


Most people don't think it is cheating if they don't kiss, hug, have sex, etc but that is wrong. What ever you do or say, do it in front of the other person that you are dating, married to, or living with.

Answer 7

you, are cheating in your heart is same if you had done it you want too to do it.[ because you are sweet talking him behind your mate back .on the real dont play with a person heart it hurts .

Answer 8

Yes, it's cheating. You need to make a decision, instead of stringing two people along. Do the right thing.

Answer 9

if its something that you feel like you need to hide from your partner, then i would call it cheating. think of it this way, how would you feel if your partner was sweet talking to someone else?

Answer 10

Yes, it is. An ongoing flirting relationship with anybody but your spouse IS cheating, even if there is never anything more. But, flirting is usually how being unfaithful starts.