see my best friends boy friend is telling people that he's going to dump her. when she heard she asked him if its true and he lied and said no. i know he's lieing. what should i tell her?
2006-10-21 16:45:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dump him first, and move on. Sounds very childish and she needs to find guys willing to take their relationships seriously!
2006-10-21 16:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by lilwalker02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the problem is that if you tell her he is still going to deny it and then he is going to say that you are trying to start trouble and she will then be pissy with you.But if you dont tell her you are gonna feel like a **** cause she is your best friend.Dont tell her,if someone already did and he was able to make her believe him then just leave it alone cause she wont belive you either.Just be there for her when he does do it.Be a friend and listen to her and let her cry on your shoulder,cause whether you tellher or she finds out on her own it is going to hurt.
2006-10-21 23:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to dump him first because if you don't tell her, and she finds out that you knew that he was going to dump her, then it's the end of the friendship.
Tell her that he was lying and tell her to dump him. He probably isn't worth it.
2006-10-21 23:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by alice.lolita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are truely her best friend, you have an obligationto let her know exactly what you know. If she chooses not to listen to you and her boyfriend continues to lie and she stays with him, well, you have done your work. It is completely up to her now, as she is not in the dark.
2006-10-21 23:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by Calilady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell her and she doesn't want to believe you -- or would rather believe him... it's not going to help your friendship. It seems like other people might be saying it enough... she will either figure it out when it happens or get hurt. So, you can tell her... just know that she might hate you for it.
2006-10-21 23:49:24 · answer #5 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that so she can dump him first>
2006-10-21 23:52:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd stay out of it.
2006-10-21 23:53:09 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋