Recently found out my spouse was unfaithful,
2006-10-21 16:31:51 · 24 answers · asked by monteebee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
u have to trust her that is my advise from me to u
because if she Begin to feel that u suspect her then Ur life with her will be in trouble
2006-10-21 16:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to rub salt in your wounds? If you know that your spouse is unfaithful, forget the details and deal with the actual problem instead of hunting for its symptoms.
2006-10-21 23:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anna S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is one of a "lack of Faith" in his honesty and faithfulness to you after you have found out he was unfaithful. Understandable. However just ask for it. Then with him there, open the email and discuss anything you find there. Now, the real issue is how to mend your relationship. Yes?
2006-10-21 23:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by texandfw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go there. Be adult, confront him with what you believe you know and communicate.....Are you certain that your facts are facts? Exercising deceitful practices such as trying to find out his passwords (because you obviously can't get it honestly) is not the right thing to do, so, do the right thing and start by talking to him. If that is too confrontational for you, write him a letter and wait for his response/reaction. Suppose your information is not correct?
Best!
Silver
2006-10-21 23:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by silverlocs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask her. If she won't tell you, then leave. If she comes back after having had time to delete her emails, then leave.
By the way, it is a waste of time and energy if you are not prepared to deal with both outcomes. Do you really need to know how long the cheating has been going on or to the extent? Will that affect your decision to stay or go?
2006-10-22 00:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by diesel_pusher2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use a keystroke logger. Unless he uses a spyware or spam finder software, you can install it when he isn't around and it is hidden from eveything and has a secret pass code an dwill only activate when you want it to. So when he is gone you can call it up and see his pass word. Is it a dirty trick? Yes, and he might find out. He'll just be angry if he does.
2006-10-21 23:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have already found out, what's the point to get the password?? Getting a hard evidence to divorce?? Suggest you to talk to him/her.. Good Luck!!
2006-10-21 23:44:10 · answer #7 · answered by Mochi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a keystroke logger and install it on the computer. And don't be a fool and go looking for something you're not ready to deal with
2006-10-21 23:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, assuming you've tried to guess the password, you should click forgot password and then it should have some kind of request for personal info, maybe you'll know it. That's what I do to my husband. LOL That's my only suggestion.
2006-10-21 23:35:24 · answer #9 · answered by ANG 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Use a key logger. Just use the Yahoo search. Remember, some things are better left unknown. Best of luck to you.
2006-10-21 23:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by itsa b 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Install a key stroke logger on your computer. It will record everything typed, when she's not around, view the log file and see what she typed.
2006-10-21 23:36:16 · answer #11 · answered by gulf9191 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋