How do you move on after you make a very bad choice and lose EVERYTHING? Friends, family, job,kids,self?

Answer 1

This may sound cold but this is sometimes a blessing in disguise, I have started over many times and after soulsearching and being honest with myself as to why I ended up with everything gone, I was able to learn from my mistakes. It may sound cliche but every day is a new and wonderful start to your life, you only need embrace the adventure. And by thinking of life as an adventure to pursue you take yourself out of the victim pool and start creating the life you are meant to have which is full of hope, promise and all that you will ever need. Don't waste time on feeling sorry for yourself, start small, find a place to live, even if it is some shelter, then get a job or secure income(disability, welfare...you only need it for a hand up) then take baby steps with everything else....relationships, jobs, family....don't buy into drama, there are always people who want to drag you down to their level, stay strong, stay positive and stay spiritual, the universe will provide all your needs just bless your life as it is and it will become a blessing, Love and Light, Leslie

Answer 2

You have already begun. You seem to be taking full responsibility for the cause of what you claim as loss. This in and of itself suggests that you are more worthy than some to learn from these difficult life lessons. Further you say that you made 'a' bad choice, as in (1) or singular. Now if you've made only one and experienced so much loss that neither family nor friend is standing by you it surely must have been a doozy. But what of those who you learned you could not turn to in your time of great need. Are they so guiltless? Not knowing more about the specifics of this bad choice it is difficult to offer much more than this: go forward, make up your mind to live each day fully and as though it is your last. Worry or blame are both non productive, so do neither. Do not expect miracles or that you will feel completely healed from this bad experience tomorrow. But be sure to have learned from your mistakes and promise YOURSELF never to make them again. Know that you are a worthwhile individual, that you are something and that you will, even in spite of yourself progress. How you move on is up to you. So start enjoying the journey, you've come well prepared having experienced the road of hard knocks. And remember to begin, right now with a smile> =;-)

Answer 3

You swallow your pride and hold your head high and take baby steps. Some say that you learn from your mistakes, if they were true friends they would have stay, that should tell you something. Family you didn't loose, there angry maybe sad over your choice but given time you and your family will unite, as for the job, ask yourself did you really like doing what you were doing and be honest with yourself, the kids will always love there parent just like family give them time. As for your self only if you can forgive you can your self be there. Learn from this but keep in mind that your the only one who can make this better

Answer 4

first you have to find your self again!! then you must come to a realization of ALL of YOUR mistakes that YOU made then you need to decide whats important to you and prioritize your life putting it back together the way you want it, the way it should be, the right way the way it needs to be that will be best for YOU sometimes you just have to let the past go no matter how bad it was or how hard it may be for you to do and then focus strictly on YOU and what YOU need you must do for your self before you can do for others and sometimes things aren't the way you want them to be or the way that you think is best but you still must do what you can with the situation that you have been dealt always put YOUR SELF FIRST if you have nothing else then you are all that's left TAKE CARE OF YOU now!!! everything else will come back in time

Answer 5

oh my gawd how do i tell you this hhmmmm i did the same thing and its taken a lot of self evaluation i had to completely take my self out of the equasion i moved a hundred miles away where no one knew me or my past started from scratch and stayed alone (WELL TO MYSELF) alot in order to work and sort thru my head did lots of praying and questioning and i went thru ALL the emotions i cryed daily felt sorry for myself and all that then one day i got back to trying to find me the person i love and the one whos funny and the one others love to be around i got back in to the work environment that makes me the happiest (i had changed jobs back when and that was one of my first big mistakes in my disaster) im talkin i was basically and litteally on the street well its a super hard long road and i give you much respect and wish you the very best but im proof if you stop slow down and work on you then the rest follows the universe tends to unfold its self as it should ps.. im actually happier than i have been in like 10 yrs

Answer 6

Same thing happened to me 4 years ago. I sunk deep due to a very bad decision. First came the job (I slept on a friend's sofa for a year) then came my own place, slowly I am rebuilding but will be in debt for the rest of my life, family still enjoy putting in the occasional dig, the ex husband hostility has faded slowly (both love to see me suffer), and now I have my child every weekend. It is a long road and life will not be the same but life does go on.

Answer 7

One step at a time. Knowing you made a mistake is the first step. Apologizing is usually the second step. The rest will come naturally as walking.

Answer 8

u need to observe where u were wrong in making choice
n keep this thing in mind while making choices again in future............
life is just about "creating yourself "
as u feel averything is gone but don't forget after distortion
recreation is better .....
so recreate urself

Answer 9

Do something extreme to cleanse yourself like skydiving and use that as a marker to start from and improve from there.

Answer 10

God find Him and you'll find everything and more!