they just started going out like a week and a half ago annd all she ever talks about is him, and all of our set plans are being messed up because she wants him to come over and i dont mean to be bitter about it, but its really upseting me
2006-10-21 15:53:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe you should find a boyfriend too so you guys can double date and whenever she wants to invite her boyfriend invite yours too..And then you guys are eventually gonna miss each other so she's gonna call you up and ask if you have any plans and you say no and you guys can have your on quality time together like before she got a boyfriend and then set aside a day that you and your best friend only can hang out without your boyfriends.
2006-10-21 15:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's totally understandable that you feel like you do about it.
She's in love so she's not thinking clearly right now. And you will find that most females when given an ultimatum between their friend and their boyfriend/husband will take the boyfriend/husband.
If you want, explain to your friend that you realize she is in love, but you feel like a third wheel when she invites her boyfriend over when you two had planned time together. Ask her if she can schedule time for you without Romeo.
Don't be surprised if your friendship takes a backseat for awhile. If you value the friendship, find something else to do until, or if, the situation changes.
2006-10-21 23:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it and tell her that it is upsetting you and that you miss spending time with just her. You can also ask her if she not bring her boyfriend along when she makes plans with you.
2006-10-21 23:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by Andy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you really miss spending time with just her. Ask her if sometime just you and her could hang out.
2006-10-21 22:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her know. pull her to the side and tell her that you have nothing against her bf but you'd really like it if it could be just you and her on certain occasions. she'll understand.....good luck
2006-10-21 22:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by tawny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋