what would you do if you got married and the women you married had a son before yall met and just out of the blue she told you that she didnt think that the man she said was her babies father might not be the father and that she needs to get a paternity test for another man would you stay by her side or would you leave her?
2006-10-21 15:32:52 · 12 answers · asked by mrsp27 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
remind you she was only 16 when she had the baby she is 27 now
2006-10-21 15:38:25 · update #1
THE KIDS PATERNITY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU SO IF YOU LOVE HER STAY, AS FOR THE KID, YOU MIGHT BE THE REAL FATHER HE NEEDS IN HIS LIFE. PATERNITY IS NOT EVRYTHING. BEING THERE WHEN HE NEEDS YOU MAKES A FATHER. GOOD LUCK.
2006-10-21 15:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by donnies_sugarbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay. If he is in love with her and the kid was before him he has no reason to be mad. Every one has a past. A real man would stand by her side if he loves her and if he married he he better love her.
2006-10-21 22:38:37 · answer #2 · answered by Left Alone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that it happened before you met. She is a different person now than she was then. Support her and be with her through all the tests.
2006-10-21 22:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This issue is very important and should have been discussed before marriage. It will be very shocking to him. I would probably leave as their is a trust issue involved. I would always wonder what she is going to spring on me next.
2006-10-21 22:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you loved her before all of thise happened, and I am sure you still love her now, so why would not want to be with her. Yes, she made a mistake, but the mistake was not with you, it was with someone else. Choose your decision by how you feel, do not base it on people's opinions
2006-10-21 22:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by ridingis4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well gosh, it depends on how many men she wants to have take the paternity test.
2006-10-21 22:36:42 · answer #6 · answered by festus_porkchop 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,,,if I loved her and all that happened before we got married then No I would not leave her....
2006-10-21 22:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you leave? If he left he wouldnt be a good husband and shes better off without him.
2006-10-21 22:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by pryncess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who ru marryin btw. Are u sure u know who'e the one sleeping beside u??
2006-10-21 22:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by sun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would joke around and give her a hard time. but i would also support her in whatever she needs. sometimes you just need piece of mind.
2006-10-21 22:59:38 · answer #10 · answered by jmj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋