my husband and i have been married for almost 2 years and dont get me wrong we have sex at least 4 times a week but its boring same position, only takes a minute. can you give me ideas on new poitions and how to make him last longer?
2006-10-21 14:04:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my sister and neice live with us so we cant just do it all over the house like we used to and i cant be as loud as we both would like
2006-10-21 14:15:41 · update #1
what is the average male size??? cuz i think we are a little small in that area to but i wouldnt know he is the only one ive been with except seeing them in movies
2006-10-21 14:17:31 · update #2
a) Tell him you are in control some night. Reverse the positions.
b) A tight grip around the base of the penis will stop the man from ejaculation/orgasm.
c) Most men who can go 4 times a week can go 2 a night. It normally takes 4 to 5 minutes for men/women to come back to fun time. Massage his testicles and kiss him to see if you can't bring him back. Usually the second time is significantly longer for the man to complete - giving the woman a chance.
d) A warm aromatic oil is nice around the penis.
e) Buy a supermarket tabloid. They think they invented sex.
2006-10-21 14:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I wish I would have found someone like you...
anyway, the average size is 5.5 inches depending on who you talk to.
After 21 years of trying to get my wife to spice things up I finally found someone else, becasue if they wanted to they would, so either get used to it or move on. Selfish people usually stay that way.
If you are even moderately good looking you can find a ****-buddy. I know many women who do this. They remain with thier hubby cuz he is nice and safe but screw the hell out of local hunks.
Try Adultfriendfinder.com for that... make sure you get a review frim another woman before going to bed with a guy.
2006-10-21 21:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by Mindlessfun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*movies*, sexy little outfit, roleplaying, candy undergarments
positions: Doggy Style, 69.....or just try adjusting yourselves in whatever way you feel like it and see how it works.
Or if you like it rough, have it push you against the wall and see how hard he can give it to you.
Go to a hotel room. Or try doing it in places you wouldn't necessarily do it in.....like an elevator! or a public bathroom, or in the car.
Good Luck!
2006-10-21 21:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just check themarriagebed.com for good ideas for couples and try the kama sutra book for information on different positions also some warm oil massage
2006-10-21 21:27:33 · answer #4 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you want.
do more oral, if you do any at all.
maybe if you play with his penis more it will desensitize it a little. have him fight the urge to come, and when he feels like he can't hold back much longer you stop, let him calm down and start over.
2006-10-21 21:31:41 · answer #5 · answered by Ant O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Location can add some excitement; certainly changing positions
2006-10-21 21:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck to you...if he is already going 4 times a wk. an still pops when you look at him your in trouble. try more foreplay an oral...watch your x-rated movies together.
2006-10-21 21:07:54 · answer #7 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They make some creams that will solve that problem, no joke.
2006-10-21 21:05:29 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋