i need help finding out if im bi. im 13 yrs old and i really like my friend thats a girl, but then i like my friend thats a boy too. i get really nervous around them. sometimes i can see myself having a relationship w/ my friend thats a girl[ hugging&kissing her], then theres times i cant. im really confused. is this just a growing stage? if so, is it almost over?is it normal too like girls for 1 1/2 yrs? plz help my fellow 'friends', plz!!!!!!!!!??????
2006-10-21 13:45:31 · 7 answers · asked by Taylor c 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Eh go with the flow. If your gay so what, if your straight so what, if your bi who cares :) I wouldnt dive too much into it. Enjoy your life, and love those that you love. Just because you love someone doesnt mean you have to have sex with them.
I would wait a while to become sexually active. That will give you time to better decide who you love in a sexual way. Either way I support your decision.
Im afraid no one on here can tell you if you are gay or straigh. Maybe you are just bi as you say. Nothing wrong with that at all either. You get the best of both worlds ;)
2006-10-21 14:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by calcdffirefighter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand one thing: you are going through a lot of changes right now. Just because you have a fantesy about same sex relations doesn't mean that you are bi/lesbian. Everyone goes through a time in their life when they are curious about the same sex, but that is natural. We're all a little gay deep down.
Now, I'm not saying that you aren't, but understand that this is natural. There have been times where I've been sexually attracted to a female, but I've had no real desire to express that in a physical way.
2006-10-21 20:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by analystdevil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being 13 is difficult enough without feelig like you have to definately define your sexuality right now. You COULD be Bi, and that's alright, but you also could just really admire your girlfriend for special qualities of her personality you would like to emulate. When I was 22, i fell in love with my boss, who was a little older than i was, and I decided to tell her how I felt. she was very kind and told me that rather than being in love romantically with her, I probably was decidinf what kind of woman I wanted to be, and I wanted to be a woman a lot like her. This answer rang true in my heart, and I realized my "crush" was just admiration,
Listen to your heart, but remember that you need not make a decision now.
Good Luck
2006-10-21 20:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by motown_annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey honey.. i wont go tellin u u r young and this ****..
but u gotta know that in ur age its very normal to hug and kiss ur friend.. that doesnt have to mean that u r a lez..
besides.. u think that u r a lesbian becoz u think that way.. just try not to think about the whole thing an du'll find that hugging and kissing ur close friend is the very normal thing between close friends..
2006-10-21 23:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by heba! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you worry much too much over things that may never happen.
Just enjoy your youth and your friends. In time, you will know what is right for you.
2006-10-21 20:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be on this site
2006-10-21 20:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by shellygirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think so.
2006-10-21 20:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by hopeless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋