Ok my sister really freaked out when i told a guy i met online a lot about me and heck i freaked out 2 but i just realized how sweet and nice this guy was and i started crying because i sent him a goodbye email and i really liked him i think thats why i started crying him but here's the email i sent him......I just wanted to tell you why i haven't been talking to you well its because my sis freaked out because i told you a lot about me and my sis and now she's thinking your an online predator or something so i just wanted to tell you that i can't talk to you anymore or my sis will kill me and i'll miss you k bye!!
Love,
Anna
and when i looked at that email i started crying and i'm crying while i type now. Anyway what should i do?
2006-10-21 13:42:40 · 9 answers · asked by diamonds_are_love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first thing first you cant all ways judge the book by the cover just because he is on line does not make him a predator and if that's the case what do that make you cause your on line to right another thing. you told him every thing about you so its a little to late to start thinking about the predator thing. and maybe he is a nice guy well at least you think so cause if you did not you would of never told him so much about you and another thing is your sister is never going to like all of your male friends and how you meet them but that's how sisters is and besides you were only talking over line i mean how is he going to get to you if you don't tell him where you live or meet up with him some were i mean come on i do understand where she is coming from but that can be any body it could be your next door neighbor you never no but that's just how life is. ( and that how you meet people they tell you things about them and you tell them things about you) so i say do what you think is best for you and what makes you comfortable and stop crying every thing will be ok .
2006-10-21 14:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by sarah l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Online predators are really good at making you think they are sweet and nice. Don't cry-your sister is doing you a big favor. Do not ever tell anyone where you live, work or go to school. Aren't there some really nice guys you know already? Give them a chance.
2006-10-21 20:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by Ceci 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since you were crying then its best if you two don't talk.If your sister think he's a sexual predator then you must be under age and I would freak out too if you were my little sister.She's just protecting you.At your age,online dating is not safe,guys pretend to be younger when they're just perverted sickos.There will be more guys don't worry
2006-10-21 20:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately we live in a world where some people are not who they say they are. You just have to be so careful about what you say - the degenerates are out there. Do some background research on this person if you can and find out if he is who he is saying he is and then go from there. Good Luck.
2006-10-21 20:47:38 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like u really like this guy. Well there have been MANY cases that a girl gets rapped and killed becuz they meet pple online.. and if u dont know this person IN person then its better to be safe than sorry. You might feel sad, but you'll get over it.
2006-10-21 20:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by Gaby H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry but your sisters right you can never be sure of who your talking too. Dont ever give out too much information on the net.
Cant you make other friends on the net from your school? people that you know slightly?
2006-10-21 20:50:09 · answer #6 · answered by multiflowercolour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sister is right inless you have seen this guy in person you dont know they can show any pic and tell you anything it is dangerous these days beware girl you could be like hundreds of other girls who thought they were ok and they are found dead your sister is just looking out for you .
2006-10-21 20:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT GIVE OUT PERSONAL INFO, HUN THIS WORLD IS CRAZY, PROMISE UR SIS THAT YOU WILL NEVER DO IT AGAIN AND TELL HE THAT YOU ARE GOING TO COMMUNICATE WITH HIM BUT NOT ON SUCH A PERSONAL LEVEL. DONT EVEN MEET ANYONE FROM OFF OF HERE. I DID AND HE TRIED TO RAPE ME IN THE PARKING LOT IN MY CAR WHEN WERE JUST TALKIN' AT APPLE BEES. DONT EVER MEET NO ONE NO NO NO NO NO NNO NON O NO NO
2006-10-21 20:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by jjkk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is right. It's good that you cut off the relationship...and don't worry, you'll find a great guy in person!
2006-10-21 20:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by dizzyfish118 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋