My friend was having a sleepover & it was me & her & this girl named sarah. Sarah is a mean person & I dont know y I was her friend! Me & Carley were on Carley's bed, we were going to sleep there & sarah slept on the floor because she said she wanted to. Well I felt bad for her so I said you can sleep on the bed with us because there was room and about 20 mins later she starts complaining there isnt enough room so she takes my pillows & throws them on the floor & says go sleep there & tells me how much I am stupid & that she is only my friend because she felt sorry for me & so finally i got up & said Sarah since you so stupid i will move & she said good because we dont want your fat butt on the bed & so i took my phone & pillow and went and sleep on the couch & I cut off the friendship braclet that she gave me & threw it in the trash & then she started talking about me to carley & i could hear everything she was saying & im sad still 5 dayz later I cried 10 times please help me so sad!
2006-10-21 13:41:54 · 29 answers · asked by Lauren♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You shouldn't have volunteered to leave, you gave up your spot. From the info in your question I am guessing you all are REALLY young, this is kinda what happens at this age, if you associate with these kind of people. If you didn't like sarah anyway, you must have already known how she was, so just overlook her and hopefully next time Carley will be a real friend and stand up for you.
Best Wishes!!
2006-10-21 13:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a very strong word. I would believe that you are angry at her and you have every right to be.
Yes, what she said and did was mean. You were very nice to offer her to sleep on the bed with both of you and she turned around and was being hateful about it.
You need to tell her that she hurt your feelings when you were nice to her when you felt bad for her being on the floor when she wanted to be there and then turned around and called you fat and stupid. Friends are not suppose to be mean. They are suppose to be there for each other. Friends are not suppose to call each other names. You should apologize for calling her stupid back even though you did it because you were upset, and tell her that is why you did it. If she continues to be mean, you need to find better friends who will treat you with respect.
I am sorry you had that happen to you. There are better people out there. Some people act out like that because they are jealous of you. Ask her if she needs a hug the next time she gets cranky so she will become more sweet, or give her a Hershey's kiss to sweeten her mood up.
Hugs to you.
2006-10-21 13:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being young is not easy. Friends come and go. The good ones stay true. Sounds like she is having other issues besides you. Maybe you should confront her. Is her friendship worth it? How good a friend was she before? I'm sure it hurt a lot. She meant something to you otherwise it wouldnt have bothered you way it did. How does your other friend feel? You will get through it. Maybe after all is said and done you two will make up. Anything is possible.
2006-10-21 13:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by sherrylynn1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was a big sentence! Anyway, you wouldn't want to be friends with a mean chicken! Now sooner or later, she's gonna get her head cut off.(someone is going to tell her she's really mean and she's gonna feel like a big jerk) Its called karma, it usually doesn't happen in front of you, but it does happen. Justice is served. Just ignore her and her stupid comments, think she doesn't deserve your friendship.(just don't tell her that or wave it in her face, or even talk to her) By any chance, is Sarah blonde? I used to have a friend named Sarah, who was a bit chubby and blone, but she moved.
2006-10-21 13:52:18 · answer #4 · answered by Peanut to the rescue! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you. Don't be her friend, just be Carley's friend. Talk to Carley. She'll understand, unless she's just like Sarah. Or you can make new friends.
Goof luck!
2006-10-21 13:45:05 · answer #5 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well to deal with someone give them a little taste of there own medicine and if carly is listening to her trash then she isnt a friend either sarah has a problem and you need to fix it for her she is a ***** AND SHE NEEDS TO BE DEALT with she is a fat @ss bully and tell her i said so what goes around comes around and she will get hers sooner than what she thinks because people do not like smart asses and she isnt to smart and you should have kick her fat @ss off the bed stand your grounds girl she isnt sh!t not by any standards .
2006-10-21 13:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy, i bet you are hurting, was carly agreeing with her?- heck if she was really a good friend , she`d of come out to see how you were.you sound nice, i think i`d right them both a letter, telling how you feel.send it to them, then let them come to you. if they don`t, try to find new friends.don`t be mean in the letters, just tell them them what they did & how it made you feel.be sure & add that if you did something to hurt them that you`re sorry& that if they don`t answer back-it`s o. k. that it`s apparent they don`t need you as a friend, sweetie, i know it hurts, but you can find some better friends.you have you, & you need to learn to love yourself , to be the best person , you can be.invest in yourself,find confidence in you.& you will be a winner in life don`t start letting people put you down-you`re worth a lot more than that, butalso, don`t put yourself above others.
2006-10-21 14:26:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? Neither one of them are worth the breath to say their names. Go make a friend who is truly a friend. Didn't you know that people who act like them only get it ten times worse down the road? It's true! Someone, someday, is going to treat "them" that way or worse, and then they'll know what it feels like. Don't let them bother you. Just be happy knowing "you" don't have "their" personality problems. And by the way? It's not nice to "hate" anyone. By hating, it makes you as bad as them, so don't, okay?
2006-10-21 13:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by Republican!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. just talk to her and act like it never happened. about the feeling sorry part, i remember one time my
sister said that her teacher sent a no-friends kid out to deliver
a phony message to someone. while she was gone, the teacher got some volunteers to be her friend. i doubt thats what happened to you, but if she really did want to be your friend
because she felt sorry for you, maybe you can mold it into a real friendship. good luck!
2006-10-21 13:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont feel bad you did the right thing and the best thing you felt bad for her when you so her sleepin on the floor but has a friend she should be quiet and a frien thet talks bheind your back is not a real friend you need to tell her and be mad not sad cause she needs to apolgize to you ok ww smile
2006-10-21 16:14:55 · answer #10 · answered by avihay n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋