my bf gets so jealous when im around my guy friends.i keep telling him there just my friends.he dose not trust me at all.what do i do?
2006-10-21 13:25:23 · 11 answers · asked by buble c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't think it's specifically a question of him not trusting you. It's his personality, and he's probably insecure. There's only one real way of dealing with it. You need to sit him down and explain that you love him, but males form 50% of the population therefore there's no way you'll be able to avoid them forever. Consequently, if he can't deal with this then the relationship cannot go on. If you're not prepared to go this far then you'll have to be prepared to put up with a lot of tantrums and a lot of clashes - unless you choose not to have any male friends at all. If you don't resolve it one way or another, it will get worse before it gets better - if it ever gets better.
2006-10-21 13:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by John P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most teenage boys are very insecure in relationships with girls. Oh, they show it in differrent ways, like being jealous, or too aloof or seemingly uncaring, but they are in a learning curve right now.
I would give him a good talking to, have a little patience with him after that, see if he stops it, make sure I am not enjoying it and feeding into it , then seriously look at other options .
2006-10-21 20:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him alone...jealousy is a sickness, it is not a sign of love or anything remotely close to love, it is however a sure sign of a control freak outta control!!! If thats what you want then hang on in there you will get it for sure, if not then keep it moving girlfriend, keep it moving! Besides, you already know he doesnt trust you why would you stick around for more!!?
2006-10-21 20:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by tpoke24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel the same way because even though there's nothing going on all those guy friends day dream you know and he knows this too. Also you maybe tellin your guy friends things about your relationship which makes them look at him differently.
2006-10-21 20:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a good relationship, trust is a key factor. If your bf can't handle trust, then he isn't worth your time.
2006-10-21 20:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by Kayari of Midnight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
woman can not have guy friends unless there are fat and tomboyish. guy have a different set of mind. they just want to get in your pants and sooner or later its going to happen especially if they get drinks evolved
2006-10-21 20:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by Lola C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sit him down and let him know word for word you like him not them,
ex: guy you have no reason to be jealous, i love you and only you, they are just my friends i dont like them the way i like you
2006-10-21 20:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ppl told you one side of coin whis is TRUE the other side is,,he is possesive of you .. loves you ...but if its overdosed you need to act acc to how yu feel for him.. dump him if its a fling..else make him understanD!!
2006-10-21 20:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by barley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will not ever trust you. It will only get worse-you must dump him.
2006-10-21 20:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by country girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave his *** he doesn't trust you so kick his *** to the curve and get yourself another guy who will trust you and who will treat you better.
2006-10-21 20:32:24 · answer #10 · answered by la_reina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋