My friend (Meg) and I are after the same guy, Matt. This guy's best friend, Joe, is planning on asking me out. Matt and Joe are ex's of two of my good friends, but they are both saying "go for it." Matt knows that Meg and I like him, but Joe doesn't know that I like Matt and not him. Matt is one of the "go with the flow" kind of guys, so I know he is not going to do anything with me when he knows his best friend is already making plans for me. I can't bring myself to tell Joe that I don't like him...I already ruined his 7 month long relationship because his girlfriend found out that he liked another person...Joe's girlfriend also just happens to be a good friend of mine.
Is there any advice whatsoever besides: "wait it out"?
2006-10-21 13:25:07 · 6 answers · asked by Tor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, we both liked him, and finally admitted that to each other...not like she liked him and then because she liked him I decided to go after him...
And his girlfriend, of seven months, found out that Joe liked me...the reason they are broken up now.
2006-10-21 14:50:38 · update #1
No, you like matt, stop this thing with joe. If you ever want matt. Matt knows you like him, and he is probably wondering, "if she likes me, why is she going for joe?" totally stop this. Tell Joe, you think he is super great, but you still have feelings for someone else. He will want to know who, just tell him you dont feel comfortable talking about it and that you just want to be friends. Then, get closer to matt. OOOO and by the way, if you and your best friend like Matt, then you need to consider any advice she may be giving you, as void, as she is trying to get Matt. Later you will say, That internet chick was right. (that is me) :)
2006-10-21 13:34:18 · answer #1 · answered by progest 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I need a map just to keep the characters in line.
Here is a hint...Life shouldn't be that complicated.
2006-10-21 13:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you like someone that your freind likes and why would you mess up his relationship with his girlfriend.?
2006-10-21 13:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by buble c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just play twister everybody will be happy
2006-10-21 13:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could be the star of a soap opera
2006-10-21 13:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by mightymight 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
uh oh
2006-10-21 13:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋