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First of all, my father passed away in August. We were told that he tried to hang himself and when he jumped of the roof, it broke and he fell and thats what killed him.

Now I had a dream last night that I was at my old house, where it happened, and the front door opened. A black cloud came out and flew into me, knocking me over. I hit my head and when I got up, I heard my dad arguing with someone. I went behind the house to see what was going on and I saw my dads ghost on top of the house wrestling with the black cloud. He was telling me to get out of there and to stay away and then the black cloud pushed him off the roof.

Please help me. I cant seem to get this out of my head and I dont know what it means.

2006-10-21 13:19:31 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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I am so sorry for your loss. Eleven years ago I lost my Grandfather, and I still have dreams that he's dying or has just died. Were you close to him?

Your dream could mean one of two things. First, you could have seen the turmoil that was going on within your dad. Maybe he was experiencing inner turmoil..."fighting with demons" as they say. Maybe your subconscious picked up on this and manifested itself as a dark cloud in your dream.

Second, it could be that you feel like there's no way he would have ever tried to kill himself, therefore, someone MUST have pushed him. Maybe the dark cloud in your dream is a substitute for a person who you can't see.

It takes a long time to grieve, especially the loss of a parent. I am so sorry you lost your dad.

2006-10-21 13:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by Joy 4 · 1 0

You have had an unbelievable horrendous experience with the death of your father. A dream like this is a clear sign that you need support as you deal with that loss. I know a lot of people may tell you the dark shadow is the devil or death or something, but the real meaning of this dream is that you are deeply troubled by what you have experienced (who wouldn't be?) and you need a good qualified counselor to help you get through it. Please go and find that person right away. I know you will feel 100% better. And I am so sorry that this happened to you.

2006-10-21 20:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by Isis 7 · 0 0

Maybe you still have some doubts of how he died, or perhaps you still need to recover from the loss. Often, when bad things happen, I tend to dream about them until a overcome what happened. I won't say "get over it" (that would be rude), but maybe you need to have a time together with your family to heal emotionally (it could help a lot!). If you don't feel like sharing grief, then play a game, or bring some humor into your lives. The first step of healing grief is acceptance. Find a way to accept what happened, or acknowledge it. The rest usually comes with time.

You could also see a counselor. They can help.

I give you my heartfelt condolences.

2006-10-21 20:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by phoenix rising 2 · 0 0

Wow. You remembered almost every detail of your dream. I think, I'm not sure though, but the black cloud might mean that something really bad is going to happen to you, and your father's spirit found out. He tried to stop it from coming tto you, but couldn't. The cloud overpowered him. I hope what I think doesn't come true, but I just typed what I think was right. Sorry if I scared you or anything. Good Luck!

2006-10-21 20:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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2006-10-22 11:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by Spirita 5 · 0 0

well if ur dad died in the dream it must mean someone is goin to have a baby but whenever i have a dream like that i tell my ma if its that bad n she tells me what they mean...so u should tell someone!

2006-10-21 20:22:08 · answer #6 · answered by confused chica 1 · 0 0

I think U traumatized cause of your dad

2006-10-21 20:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by Alejandra M 1 · 0 0

i think it means nothing

2006-10-21 20:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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