2006-10-21 13:19:06 · 19 answers · asked by Hannah H 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
you could always take the used condom and "artifically insemenate" yourself. but there runs a risk him believing you have cheated on him...try make the condom "breakable".
2006-10-21 18:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by A J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First ask yourself. Why does he still insist to where a condom? Then think about why you want to have a baby now and are you ready? I, too had this problem, but after talking it over with him. We came to an agreement to wait for at least one year. So please talk to your husband again. A child is blessing best enjoyed when you both are in agreement. Wish you well.
2006-10-21 20:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by NADS 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to respect your husbands wishes and wait until you are both ready. Maybe there are some underlying issues on why he doesnt want children right now. Have you asked him why?
If you do "Punch a whole" in the condom, things will not be good. He will begin to resent you for pushing him into parenthood when he his not ready.
2006-10-22 09:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by babyj248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your best bet is to wait until you are both ready to have a child. If you poke holes in the condom or get pregnant on purpose without him agreeing with it, and he doesn't feel that he is ready to have a baby, you risk major complications in your marriage. I say wait until both of you are sure that you are completely ready for the responsibility of raising a child.
2006-10-21 20:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by Amber D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Really? Do you want to have that battle after he finds out you sabotaged him? Talk to him about it first. If you are ready and he's not, having a baby is going to cause you more pain than you think and you might end up resenting the child.
2006-10-21 20:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by pattypuff76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to have a child with someone who doesn't want one, it will be really hard on you. If he says he will not want one for awhile, then you should decide whether you are willing to wait for him to change his mind about it or find someone else that has similar goals. Don't trap him, though, he would probably just grow to resent you and leave you alone with the child anyway.
2006-10-22 19:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by girlbomber1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not ready - then you as a couple are not ready. He needs ot be up for the challenge as much as you are, or else relationship problems could ensue.
2006-10-21 20:56:36 · answer #7 · answered by Starlight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one is ready to be parents until you have them people remember that no one is ready when you get pregnant thats when you are ready to become parents so if you dont become pregnant then not ready if you do then you will be ready get it. Talk to him though about it dont trick him thats mean.
2006-10-21 21:27:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him.Tell him you want a baby.Don't trick him. be honest.You don't want to get pregnant by playing with the birth control and have him resent you and the baby later.
2006-10-21 20:42:08 · answer #9 · answered by blue_eyed_brat78 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sit him down and ask him why he dont want kids right now and tell him how you feel about wanting to have kids!!! And maybe give him time to come around he might just change his mind about wanting kids!!!
good luck :)
2006-10-21 23:31:59 · answer #10 · answered by shorty_2_us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋