there was a girl 5 yrs ago who i was very close to, although we never actually went out together because of various different reasons. i did fall in love with her, i think she may have felt the same as well. and i still do love her, every day for the past 5 years she has been in my head at least once, and i dream about her near enough every night. i havent seen her in i dont know how long. and i spoke to her about a year ago on the phone and she said that she would still like to be friends with me. on the rare occasion i see her i am too scared to walk up to her as she is always with family and or friends at these times and none of them like me. but at the same time she always looks at me, and as far as can read her expression, she wishes she could say hi as well.
i dont know what to do.....should i do the sensible thang and just forget about her and move on, or should i do what my heart tells me to do and start talking to her again???
help, im at my wits end as to what to do!!!!!!!!
2006-10-21 13:16:19 · 19 answers · asked by hayhed_2k6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
try to reopen communication lines, but don't push it. you wouldn't want her to feel caught between you & her family. tell her that you miss talking to her & that you would love to rekindle your frienship or maybe more, but you will respect her decision if she chooses not to.
2006-10-21 13:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by hannah1015 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that since you are already at your wit's end then you might as well face your fears, put your chin up and go and talk to this girl. There must be some strong attraction for you to have feelings for her for so long. Talk to her about something like the weather and then casually ask if you could call her sometime - ask for her phone number. If she doesn't give it to you then maybe you should give up but at least give it a good try. I think you would regret it if you didn't try to get together with her.
Good luck to you!!
2006-10-21 13:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by MissHazel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is sounds almost like my situation..i haven't seen my guy for 5 yrs..but we have talked over the yrs. and he told me this summer that he still loves me as i love him. He lives 3 states away though. i'm hopping to move there this next year. Anyways, I say FOLLOW YOUR HEART!!! Go right up to her and tell her how you feel and kiss her!!!! Even if you 2 are friends...and if you love love her...TELL HER!!! Dont miss another 5 yrs....
Good Luck!!!
2006-10-21 13:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by YEP THAT'S ME.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance who know she probably like you more than a friend Do not be shy or mind her family or friend,Because they can not stop you and her from talking or being together if she really want it to be.I was in that girl position and I reach out to the guy.my family and friend do not like him but we have been together for 6 year.
Best Wishes
2006-10-21 13:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by Cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you have the oppurtunity, go for it. I lost someone I loved 5 years ago because of my stupidity and like you, he runs through my mind at least one time a day every day for 5 years and its my biggest regret in life. he is now with someone else and enagaged to be married. Dont let her get away if she is who you want to be with,
2006-10-21 13:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda8419 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on bite the bullet and next time you see her ask her out for a drink or lunch to catch up. do not leave without making a definate arrangement and getting a contact no. then ring her to confirm the arrangement. then you can take it from there. if you really love this gal which you obviously do then it is worth one last chance before you move on.
2006-10-21 13:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel -- ask her out on a romantic date or something. If she says no, get over her. There are other fish in the sea. If she says yes, good luck!
2006-10-21 13:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know i think you should go for it, from what you are saying seems like she still thinks of you everyday. If you dont try youll never know right?..so go for it m8! wats the worse that can happen? she doesnt say hey back? atleast tehn youll knowwere you stand!! you never know maybe 1 day you can be together again!!!
2006-10-21 14:29:31 · answer #8 · answered by trendy_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i think you should move on. it'll make you happy for the moment...then go ahead and start talking to her...ask her out and all. But dont be strung to her only.>>keep your options open. Good Luck!!!
2006-10-21 13:21:21 · answer #9 · answered by Jenn' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll probably keep wondering for the rest of your life unless you do something about it, so for your own peace of mind if nothing else, get in touch and see how it goes.
2006-10-21 13:20:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anna S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋