This girl that is suppose to be my boyfriends friend started runnin her mouth about me for no reason. sayin to my boyfriend that I was asking her if anything was going on between them, and I never said anything like that to her. He got mad at me and I had to prove to him that I didn't say that. she is trying to come inbetween my bf and I and he can't see it.. I trust him with all my heart but he won't tell her to butt out. Him and I have been together for 2 years. I'm 24 and he's 27. this girl is 22 and she only talks to my bf when I'm not around, but when I am around she basicly ignores him. I'm getting really mad about this and i'm sick of it. i hope sometime soon my bf can see what drama the bar really is.
2006-10-21 11:58:19 · 20 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Good God!!! I would never put up with that...tell him that if he loves you, he needs to cut her out of his life...SHE lied to him to make him think badly of you...and wanted to make you fight!!Whats worse is that he believed her with no proof, and thought you were lying till you proved you weren't!! If he still wants to be around this girl, tell him its over. She is nothing but trouble, she wants to do your guy, and if he isn't smart enough to get rid of her himself...he doesnt deserve to have you. Its not your job to get rid off girls after him, that is HIS JOB...if he doesnt he may be thinking of keeping them around for a reason if you know what I mean. Been there, done that...It gets old quick...Better look for an older guy with a little more intelligence when it comes to female psychology. That's what I did, and now I'm a happily married woman (been so for the last 2 years...not one fight or argument yet!)...If he doesnt think highly enough of you to value your feelings, and opinions in this matter...better move on because if its not this hore, it'll be another later on. Better invest your emotions in someone that will care about them, not take them for granted like he has been doing. Make him read my post also, if you feel he needs a wake-up call!
2006-10-21 12:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by Bedazzled101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 06:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know what is going on between u guys, but it looks like maybe she likes him to. If u sad that she is your bf friend, it's not a lot of guys u see that have a girl friend. It's always something mite going on or she maybe the one in love with him. But don't worry so much, if u trust him that he is truthful with u then u have nothing to worry about. I think u should talk to both of them. Talk first with your guy and ask him if he has something with her or if she is ever try to hit on him. And if he is going to tell u not to worry about anything, then u shouldn't specially if u trust him. Then after go and talk to her and tell her to stop coming between 2 of u and u can ask her if u want if she maybe likes him, u never know what she mite tell u...
2006-10-21 12:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by Martini5 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Interesting...
There comes a point where u and your man need to sit down and talk about how much this friend of his is affecting your relationship. This friend of his should respect you seeing as you are this guys girlfriend. Or you may just have a case where your man values his friendship with this trouble maker more than your relationship with him. Then you will have to decide whether or not you can be with him knowing that he puts his friends in front of your relationship. Its a tough one... Hope that everything works out.
2006-10-21 12:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by muhdee2003 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG OMG OMG....lol....I so am going threw like tha same thing, really if he is sayin nothing is going on between them, trust him till he proves you can't trust him anymore, don't make asumptions cuz if you do you'll more than likely be wrong and end up alone, and that bites......well if she is all over him then talk to him about it don't play 21 questions with him....don't beat around the bush, just talk to him!
2006-10-21 12:03:06 · answer #5 · answered by JJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completley understand. You need to find a friend that treats you right. Like a normal person. And your boyfriend shouldnt make you prove anything, he should believe you rather than your best friend.
2006-10-21 12:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you definatley are not wrong for being mad. if i were you i would tell that you need to talk and tell him everything that you feel and if after bing together for tow years he chooses to believe this other girl then he. because obviously earlier in the relationship you havent had a problem with her.
2006-10-21 12:03:05 · answer #7 · answered by shaBANG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i would tell him he has a choice to make cause you WILL NOT accept her talking about you like that. and if he has a problem with that, he knows where the door is... for real here do you want him to second guess you?? Then your going to have to stand up for yourself and tell him how much you think its bull sh!t that hes sticking up for HER in this NOT YOU!!! Any woman would be pi$$ed.... I know i would be... he obviously does NOT know what LOYALTY is!!!
2006-10-21 12:02:44 · answer #8 · answered by chrystal_lynn2002 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can be upset! And girl Im really sorry about that---some people can be SUCH JERKS!....maybe she is jealous cause you are the lucky one and maybe she likes your bf...I REALLY hope everything works out and your bf believes you!Again Im really really sorry!I wish you the best of luck!
2006-10-21 12:03:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to say to your boyfriend, Their is no reason for me to lie to you, so why are you believing her over me? I am your girlfriend. Don't you have any respect for me? Say I love you, but it seems as if your priorities are not in order, believing her over me. Their is a reason she is doing this, and it may be she likes him.You may have to tell her to back off.
2006-10-21 12:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋