we've only known eachother for a week and hung out 4 times. he knows i like him but he only said he's physically attracted to me and wants to get to know me better and in time we can work something out. when were hanging out just chilling, i get a good vibe from him that he likes me. and everything seems perfect until i go home i start assuming and doubting him because he doesn't call very often. he just got out of a 4 year relationship couple months ago. i was the one that wanted to talk to him first by the way. do you think he needs time to think? what do you think is going on. honest answers pleasee. and i appreciate you guys read this long boring story. lol thank you
2006-10-21 11:44:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I HAVE YOUR ANSWER ( listen closely) because this is coming from the heart I just got of a 2 year relationship and i loved her. I also have a female friend who is also very attractive
we've been friends for about 3 months now and even though we;ve never said it i know she likes me and i like her a lot NOW
some of us men think strangely for example Even though we know its over, sometimes we think we might get back together with our ex (but we know better) Now we have a friend like you and we know that good Friends make great lovers but we worry that if my friend (that i hang with and can tell anything to) becomes my new love ( Will i lose my friend ) or can we still be both (can you feel me) NOW! when i had a problem with my woman i could talk to my female buddy and the same with her.
but when we get together who will we talk to. ( I said when we get together because in my heart i know we will) because we already know each others likes and dislikes, we have fun together and all that. SO what i say to you is keep on being his buddy. keep listening to his feelings and telling him yours and you both will surely come together Good luck!
Signed The Cat
P.S. The sexiest thing i ever saw was when my female friend looked up at me and said (JUST BECAUSE YOU'RE MAKING LOVE TO ME DOESN'T MEAN WE'RE GONNA STOP BEING BUDDIES)
2006-10-21 13:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Probably textual content you since he used to be sitting round at residence on his possess and had not anything else to do. Either get rid, you dont must be gambling video games, both he's interested or he isnt. Its now not existence or loss of life. I'd prevent any paintings relationships for my part, it might probably get much more awkward! Or you'll ask him for a talk, join up do some thing, speak about what has occurred and so forth and whats been mentioned. You can each have a suppose approximately what you wish and speak about. You dont wish this on off factor taking place always. Maybe he's shy at paintings? Ive performed that earlier than, form of omitted any one then textual content.... Its more secure texting isnt it. You can say extra matters as its unique head to head. But propose assembly as much as discover out what he wishes, if he says to satisfy confidently he wishes you. If he says hes busy or some thing, take it as a no. And transfer on. x
2016-09-01 00:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all have you ever been in a long term relationship? Once you have some one special in you life for awhile it will and does take time for that person to move on, He could be confused at this time, maybe he thinks that it's to early to move on just yet. If I were you I would give it time, noting wrong with being friends first.
2006-10-21 11:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it has only been a week then you need to slow down and enjoy the moment. For sure the guy needs time to deal with his feelings from his last relationship. He's probably wanting to be single awhile which means you need to chill and not scare him off. Keep hangin, but keep dating other guys...nothing wrong with that. Best of luck to ya
2006-10-21 11:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by L.lion 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would give him some time, he may be trying not to make you his rebound girl (him having just ended a relationship). Follow his lead for now,,,,be his friend and be patient, it should work out how you want it in the end...
2006-10-21 11:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by obsidianeyes211 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys just don't talk much. I get confused when they write short text messages, but if they wanted to be terse, they wouldn't respond at all! I think he tells you these things partly because he wants you to want him. Boys tease. He does sound interested though. Be patient. Keep hanging out with him and trying, but give him time if he needs it. Just be comfortable around him, and he'll be comfortable around you, come to his senses, and ask you out.
2006-10-21 11:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by :) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he says he likes you- then take him at his word- or move on- and Yes he does need some space- if u are the 1 he will come around in time--- but it may take that-time-
2006-10-21 11:49:49 · answer #7 · answered by drox 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course he needs time to think and heal, if you get into another relationship after just getting out of one its called a REBOUND and they almost never work out...
2006-10-21 11:49:14 · answer #8 · answered by westvirginiastar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him some space. He has other issues to worry about and probably does'nt realize that you require so much attention.
2006-10-21 11:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hes not ready for a steady relationship yet..
2006-10-21 11:49:41 · answer #10 · answered by bllnickie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋