We live in different countries...It is getting very frustrating...I love my husband...He is a good man...But also abroad most of the time...what do I do?
2006-10-21 11:16:59 · 22 answers · asked by Wicked_One 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This happent to me too, recently so I understand you. I met this guy online he is married too, he seems to be the perfect guy he says he is in love with me and I was feeling something for him too, but my husband is a great guy and I love him, not to make you this story long I just stop talking to him he keeps calling me and emailing me but i have to be be strong I put my marriage and this other relation in a balance and my marriage is stronger. So my advise to you is, think if you really love your husband, how long you being married to him maybe this other relation is something new and we always fall for new things but are they going to last?
2006-10-21 11:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by dka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband should know what kind of snake you are. You are a liar and a cheater and he deserves so much better. I say go for the other man you two deserve each other. I bet the other man starts to cheat on you as well and you will deserve it believe me. The other man could be just using you and probably is glad you both live in different countries.
2006-10-21 18:21:31 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO.
You are in love with a man who is married and is domiciled in another country?
Oops, and you have a husband.
I think this is textbook selfishness if I ever heard of it.
Why not divorce your husband, kill the wife of your lover -- so you and your lover can be together and live happily ever after . . . because after all -- your happiness is all that matters in this situation.
The sad thing, while you have not done that PHYSICALLY -- you have allowed your actions and lapse of judgement to kill your marriage and sow ugly weeds in some else's marriage.
Your need to perform an inventory of your character and see what tremendous damage your folly is causing. When you put flesh before fidelity, desire before duty, and self above others -- you have a recipe for disaster.
There is no death worse than a spiritual one.
You have been warned.
2006-10-21 18:31:14 · answer #3 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you only "think" you are in love. It is probably not love, but it's understandable to have strong feelings for someone who is meeting your needs physically and emotionally in the absence of your husband. Don't do anything rash, and see if you can try to end it with this other guy and give a try at making your marriage work. It would be one thing if you could keep what you had with the other guy separate and confuse your feelings with love, but you can't obviously.
2006-10-21 18:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do, is get your priorities straight. you can get hurt, or someone else can get hurt, you are playing a dangerous game. remember what goes around, comes around, so be prepared. If you have a good man, Why would you want to spoil it? Be satisfied with what you have, you are just creating another problem for your self. That married man is not going to leave his family for you. people like you are a dime a dozen to him. Work on your marriage, and do not tell your husband.
2006-10-21 18:32:12 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you cheat on a good man? Why did you cheat on someone you Say you love? I think you need to get your act together and remember you vows. How can you say you love anyone when its obvious you don't really know what love is.
2006-10-21 18:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be doing the same thing but let's put that aside for the moment. Either leave the otherman alone,call it off and don't ever mention it to anyone
Or tell your husband and tarnish the relationship for life
2006-10-21 18:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is with women and men with married people? If they are married or you are married leave the other person alone. If you love your husband you should tell him how you feel. Counseling works wonders.
2006-10-21 18:19:41 · answer #8 · answered by Kelly s 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy answer to your situation. One wonders if you didn't know before hand that your husband would be away leaving you alone before you got married.
2006-10-21 18:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh fun for you!
yeah I always thought the married men were the best to date because I could always send them home when I wanted!
You wont be in love anymore when your life falls apart!
get it together and make your life happen NOW!
2006-10-21 18:21:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋