how do i make a guy want me?

Question

i want him so bad!
he is the only one in my school that i want.
if i dont get him i will be completely heartbroken.
*he knows i like him& we talked for 3 weeks then he told me,, he dosen't know what he wants.

Answer 1

Beano - your stupid. All that'll do is give him a hard joystick, and make him want to have sex... If you want the guy to like you, just be yourself. You should want him to want you for YOU, and not you, for sex. Im my opinion there are plenty enough girls walking around with unwanted babies, and no man, because the guy "doesnt know what he wants".

And whats more, why should you become sleezy for some guy who's probably not even interested in you? You deserve better than that, dont you agree?

Trust me, check out this article:
http://www.emotions-amended.com/infatuation.php

Answer 2

Okay - here's your first mistake (I think): you sound desperate. That is a total turnoff. Don't ever, ever, ever be desperate for somebody. Ever. Think "big picture." You will have so many other people to be attracted to and meet and those experiences will allow you to really find out what you want in a person someday. So, have a little dignity and don't act so desperate. If you give out this desperate vibe, that will tell this guy you are "always available" so if he's a player, he will think you are a sure bet and start hunting for others who are more challenging. Take a more confident stand and DON'T BE DESPERATE. Ever!!! I would bet you are an amazing person who a guy would be lucky to have so don't sell yourself short!!! Keep walking and walk proudly, especially when you walk away from him!!!

Answer 3

You really can't sweetie. You have to hope and pray that they feelings you have for them will be returned, but you can never be so positive. You can talk to him and put it all on the line and say "Hey, Im really interested in you. Like really interested. I would wanna be more than friends. I want to lie and say if you dont return my feelings that everything will be okay, but it wont. But at least I know I tried."

and see where it goes from there. If you're having a hard time doing that, just write that in a note. Take it from there and the best of luck to yoU!

Answer 4

Well, you are still in school so that tells me you are young. You are going to meet many men in your life time. And he may not be the one. Do not force yourself upon any one. you deserve to have someone who also wants you. Be true to yourself. good luck and god bless.

Answer 5

"you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink"

Have you ever heard that expression? You can't make anyone do what they don't want to do.

Don't worry about it, you are young! Don't set yourself up for a heartbreak!!! If it is meant to be it will.

Answer 6

yu should never HAVE to make a guy want yu, and if yu guys have already talked, he knows ur personality, and if he hasn't done any thing yet, i dun think any thing will happen.... sorri hunni!!!

Answer 7

i find that usually guys will go for you if you give them foot massages daily fresh out of their wingtips from the office.

Answer 8

OK, first you get his attention, and then you ignore him, sounds wierd but it works, and you do that until he cant take it any more and starts persueing you, matchpoint!

Answer 9

make him realize what he wants, girl!!! show him that you are the perfect girl for him. talk to him, flirt with him. and do that hair flippy thing!!!

Answer 10

sit on his lap until you can tell he is hard, then drink some ice water, put a cube in your mouth and rub it in his ear with your tongue and lips, this will change his mind instantly!