making fun of me with his friends?we used a zip lock bag while having sex with my fiance 5 weeks ago i went to the doctors for a blood test and i am pregnant .My guy thinks this is funny saying we should nick name the child zip !How can i make him not act so immature saying we will need a whole new wing on the house because i will be so big He is driving me crazy with the jokes!He told one of his friends and now they at me and crack more jokes!He even pats my stomache and says hi zippy.!Some of his jokes have gotten really crude hen talking about our sex life.
2006-10-21 10:52:00 · 17 answers · asked by claire d 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
This is driving me mad i am even questioning wanting to marry him because i will have to be mother to him as well!I have asked him to stop but he just does not get it!
2006-10-21 10:53:56 · update #1
Been with him two years
2006-10-21 11:05:56 · update #2
I'm sorry to say this, but it sounds like your boyfriend is pretty immature and a jerk besides. Have you talked to him privately about this? Let him know how badly his jokes and comments are making you feel. He may think he's just being funny and not realize how his remarks are rude and hurtful.
2006-10-21 10:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by Shana 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your problem here is why a girl should NOT. You get a guy, think you "love" him and he "LOVES" you and you have sex almost immediately. Had you looked at him even once you would have seen how he is before you got pregnant. He uses these jokes and stuff now to hurt you for hurting him by forcing him into a situation he is not ready for. He did not love you or anything, He just wanted his fun and SEX for free and you provided that. Now he is being verbally abusive toward you and you are still considering marriage. You should be considering if you are going to raise a baby alone or have an abortion, or give the baby up for adoption. I am not meaning to be harsh or mean or critical and am sorry that I am sounding that way. I am just trying to get you to think about what you must do for you and the baby. Verbal abuse that is rewarded by a marriage he does not want, may become physical abuse. Please consider what you do very carefully.
2006-10-21 11:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah zip lock bags definitley have microscopic holes in them. But anyways, Just take him aside and tell him that he is hurting your feelings and making you very upset. Even if it makes him mad. This was something between him and you and he shouldnt have told anyone what you all did. I mean I can see making some fun that you both dont mind, but tell him enough is enough. Being pregnant is hard enough on your body. You dont need the stress of him telling you how big you will be or anything. This is his and your sex life. Its private. No one else needs to know about it. That is terrible of him to discuss it with his friends. Tell him No more sex until he stops
2006-10-21 11:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by Blondi 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk really stern with him and tell him how it makes you feel. Sometimes talking stern with him is kind of like a slap in the face saying "I'm serious!" You need to tell him that your personal business is nobody else's.....and that he needs to grow up and be a father. If he doesn't take you serious, spend a few nights away from him. That way you can relax, pamper yourself and once again RELAX! Your pregnant and he's not helping you right now, you can't be stressed out, it's not good for you. But if you spend a few nights away he'll get the picture.......It probably won't get that far before he realizes the way he was acting.
2006-10-21 11:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by shontai 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either a) hes just an *sshole or b) hes scared and he doesnt want you to know.
If i were you i would sit him down and talk to him about how it upsets you and that this is not really something to joke around with. Then tell him that everythings going to be ok and that you want him to be there for this baby and you want him to help you because your going to need it. Make sure he knows the way you feel about everything, make sure that you guys are connected and stay connected throughout the whole pregnancy period!
hope i helped. Good Luck!!
2006-10-21 11:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by Brittaney x3's Holden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What u do is call him zippy or tell him maybe you will name the baby minute made, if u get what I mean that the sex did not last that long and the baby is should be called minute made this would only make fun of him because well u know it did not him long to come.
2006-10-21 11:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by whats up all 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that he got you into this mess and he is going to have to stop with all the names and jokes. If you are willing on marrying him then you might want to tell him to act right or just sleep somewhere else but not in your house. You are not supposed to have sex before marriage because in the Bible God said it is wrong but you can pray to God and ask him for forgiveness and pray that he helps you and your baby and your fiance. I hope everything goes well with your pregnancy and that he does stop making fun of you.!!! May God Bless!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-21 11:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of getting mad just tell him that he is hurting your feelings. The more you react the worse he will be. Guys are just immature. My husband is 45 and still thinks that sex joke are funny...they never grow up.
2006-10-21 10:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A faux boyfriend would provide you faux items. Imaginary items do not sound as useful.....and being out at the faux streets sounds larger than being out at the imaginary streets. Imaginary streets make it look like, "Poof!" .....you have got simply disappeared :(
2016-09-01 00:33:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Him that is Something Serious.
An you dont like it
an if hes gonna wanna
have a baby hes gonna need to
stop cracking jokes all the time.
or tell everyone if he keep do it then
your gonna tell everyone his Penis
was tiny thats why
an be like TINY!! :D
2006-10-21 10:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋