i am dating tis one guy but he is always yeling at me and saying im doing everything wroung. I really like him and all its just i get sick of getting yelled at bi him. i really need help wat should i do?
2006-10-21 10:51:52 · 14 answers · asked by Destiny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you should tell him how you feel. after that, if he doesn't shape up, dump him!!
2006-10-21 10:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the two of you grow up, a lot of these problems will solve themselves. What I see from outside looking in is two fickle young people that are not ready to settle down. You need to refrain from having sex till you get older. When you sleep around AIDS could be caught if you are not careful. When you have sex with more than one you take the chance of getting HIV. All the other girls that this dude has been with could have given him AIDS. When you have a loose sex relationship think about the worst thing that could happen. You need to get over your first BF or turn the new BF away. Tell the new BF that you are fickle and are just not sure how you feel about anyone. Then go with your parents to church. Go to the alter and pray to God for an answer to your problem. God loves You and only wants what is best for you. Leave all the boys alone till you grow up. You are in charge of your actions. Don't let anyone get you off course. You have all your life ahead of you. Aids could change your life forever. God Bless You to make right choices.
2016-05-22 08:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to get some obvious answers which include dumping him, setting ultimatums, etc., so I'll add this: Why is he doing this? It may not have much to do with you at all, he may be dealing with his own inner turmoil, and lashing out at you to make himself feel better. You have to ask yourself, "Do I want to help fix this man?" If so, be ready for him to resist therapy, and you will continue to get abused in the process. Its your call, but if you are doing your best, and you have friends that don't think you're a mess, then its HE how is doing everything wrong. Think it over then decide if you want to stay in this relationship.
2006-10-21 10:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by Action 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run. Fast. Get out of that relationship. It will only get worse. You deserve to be with someone who builds you up not someone who tears you down. That's not love. Read 1 Corinthians 13 in the bible. Never settle for less. Seriously. You are worth it.
2006-10-21 11:10:18 · answer #4 · answered by skevans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that there's a thin line between verbal abuse & physical abuse. Let him know you don't deserve to be yelled @ like a naughty child 24/7. If he yells @ you as a result of this conversation... be glad you're just dating & not married. ULTIMATUM TIME, MY FRIEND!!! Best wishes :)
2006-10-21 10:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by Rocker Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away.
If he's yellin, the relationship aint gellin'.
Bear in mind, that this is an early indicator of an abusive personality.
2006-10-21 10:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by George Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't like it. Leave him. Always saying you are doing everything bad is like saying you as a whole are wrong.
You sure can find a nice man who will respect you.
2006-10-21 10:54:38 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like this guy may be tring to get out of the relationship, but is going a round about way to do it. He's probably trying to get you to break it off.
Do you think he may like somebody else?
2006-10-21 10:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by nick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. If you really like him, tell him to call you when he learns how to treat you with respect.
2006-10-21 10:54:57 · answer #9 · answered by endagrogan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an abusive individual,don't stay with him leave now before it gets worse.
2006-10-21 11:24:46 · answer #10 · answered by serenity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't care how much you REALLY like him....
no man who cares about his woman, would treat her like DIRT....
they would RESPECT her and NEVER put her down....
perhaps, YOU need to re look at your self, and start to learn to LOVE YOURSELF.,....
cause, when you do, others will love you too!!
2006-10-21 10:56:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋